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writes:Hi Aunts, I am off to Europe for a few months soon and when I am away the plan is that my boyfreind is gonna find us a place to live and we will move in together. I am just worried that he will change his mind cause his not with me, and I know his worried I will change mine while away or that I will meet someone else. I know 100% I am not, but I can't say that for him. he tells me he loves me and we have been together over a year. I am just worried that by not being there, somehow it will change. I really love him and want to live with him soon as I get back. Am I worrying over nothing? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn +, writes (28 September 2007):
 I think so. It's normal to worry. We all have certain fears. I worry about my children all the time. It's normal for me to as a parent. It's normal for you to worry because you have something good going on. There's going to be a slight shift in routine, by you being gone. He's worried because guys watch movies, girl goes to Europe and just can't resist the males French accent. It would be better if he was going, some women don't shave legs or arm pits. Not too attractive for men here. lol
The best thing you both can to is be honest with each other, and be honest with yourself. It's OK for a couple to be apart for a period of time and not find someone else. It happens, what keeps you together is the bond you have with one another. Reality, either one of you can walk out your front door and find someone else, it doesn't meant your going too.
If you're both committed at home, and love each other, you'll come back and wonder why you worried in the first place.
Take care and have a wonderful trip.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): yea your worrying over nothing I'm in a long term relationship and its working fine
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