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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Well I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. Just spent the last month working out boundaries, like do we want open/closed relationship, etc.About 2 weeks ago we decided together that we would be able to have fun with others in clubs (ie sexy dancing/snogging), and be able to do online chat, but not have sex outside of our relationship.Last night had a lovely dinner, watched a movie, b/f stayed over. In the morning we did some chat together online on our joint profile. I then had to shower for work. When I came out I saw the computer left on and my b/f had left his individual profile message window open. He has been giving his phone number out for other men to call him.What should I make of it? I've not given out my number since we started going out, and I thought he'd do the same. Obviously I was wrong. Dunno what way to take things. After confronting him he was real sorry etc... Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (1 October 2007):
He's not as faithful as you'd like.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Hi
I guess if its ok to chat up others in a club, maybe he took it that swapping numbers is similar? I wouldnt be comfortable with it ive got to admit.
But i wouldnt be happy with the chatting other people up in clubs either. But you need to chat a bit more, sounds like you have a bit of an open relationship going on there but still need to talk about more bounderies. Its early days for you both so you are still learning what you will and wont except, thats normal. 2 months is early doors.
C xxxx
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