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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy about 2 months ago, we instantly clicked and fancied each other but he had just come out of a long relationship so needed to be single. We met up but it although we agreed to be friends there was clearly a lot of sexual tension! He mentioned sex etc but said he couldn't do anything cos he didn't want to mess me around. He used to text me loads, call etc we would be in touch every day. Then about 2weeks ago he started brushing me off and saying he was really busy, and didn't know when he could see me etc Now he's not texting me. Im confused cos I really like him but feel hurt, I also had started to fall for him. How can someone be soo obssessed one minute then not care the next? I dunno what to do..
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reader, rcn  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 First impression, may not be right so don't quote me on it, but I'd ask him how his ex is doing, and if he likes being back with her, and why he didn't tell you when he made that decision. That's my first thought.
Second thought. He's falling too and is sticking to not wanting to mess you around because he's not quite ready to get back into a relationship until he's healed from the one he got out of.
Good luck and take care.
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