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anonymous
writes: hi i like this boy but im a total geek and im ugly and that i feel like theres not a chance with this boy because he barely notices me and he always hangs out with the popular girls and they are much prettier than me.he has spoken to me but i feel there is no conection between us,i dont want to tell him how i feel because the popular girls and his friends would laugh at me and pick on me.please help me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Amy2007x  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 If people dont like you for the way you are then screw them , you are what you are, dont go changing for anyone, coz then theyll never see the real you and fel a bit of a fake, I dumbed myself down to like this guy, and he always calls me a dumb bonde now yknow for a laugh but it sucked coz there was always a thoguth in my head ''does he really mean it??
So dont change please
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reader, drastic knowledge  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 just be your self dont go changing for some guy okay hun
so not worth it and well i can tell you as in school i was popular but really never laughd at the other girls that hit on my guy friends or flirted with them, but thats just me i guess some would do anything to fit in but oh well forget them they will learn some time
do something he will notice thow like a sport or to give you too something to talk about
some guys are way differnt away from there friends but dont keep you hopes high as he isnt in the same group as you put your self
do something to make your self feel good like get a hair cut to better your views on your self
and good luck
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reader, rcn +, writes (28 September 2007):
 First of all you are not a geek, you are a person. You are not ugly, because you are you.
I don't know how to tell him without being laughed at. Kids are mean. It does get easier when people begin learning, and treating everyone better instead of being separated into groups.
I will give you this secret. Those popular girls when they get older, won't be the popular girls, and the not so popular girls when they begin maturing will pass the others ones up and will be the popular girls.
You need to take care of yourself, don't worry about what the others think, ultimately it's how you see yourself that matters. I'm a bit older than you, and beginning when I was in my 20's I would much rather spend time with someone who was nice, than someone who's pretty and not nice.
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