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I want neutral conversation, but he feels distant...

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Question - (27 September 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *eeds2know writes:

Okay,

So my boyfriend who I have mention has been stressed with college and having to spend a good amount of money on nessecary purchases. I have been trying to give him space, I feel that maybe if i dont give he will want me more?? I want to talk to him and tell him how im feeling and I want to to have a neutral conversation with him. He has been distant and sometimes wont say i love you but then he will again. I cant figure this out. If there any guys who understand this and get distant please help me get him to come back to his oldself. Please!!

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (28 September 2007):

Most guys don't feel comfortable saying "I love you." Since he does it sometimes he probally does love you. Guys tend to be more nonverbal. Ask him to a picnic and listen to music, the idea being to be around him without too much pressure him to talk. He will talk when he's ready. Be there for him.

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