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writes:I really like a guy. We dont talk because we feel akward around each other. I live in a conservative family but im thinking of courting him even though im a girl.Is it ok? Or should I wait? Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 There's no harm in trying. If you're really good, you can probably make him feel like he was the one pursuing, not you, and get around that whole "conservative" thing.
Find out what things he likes to talk about, get him talking aobut those things, then while he does, act interested while getting physical. Laugh when he makes a joke, put your hand on his arm or chest, sit close to him, and smile a lot. Play with your hair a little. He'll get the signs, and that will hopefully give him the courage to move forward, past the awkward stage.
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reader, ck9779 +, writes (18 February 2011):
Why do you guys feel akward around each other?
One thing to be wary of is that courting him could make him feel emasculated and actually push him away.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 February 2011):
 I've never thought it wrong for a woman to court a man if she's interested. In fact, I love when women show me their interest.
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reader, TamyKarcz  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Dear you're my hero! Yes if you really like him.. go ahead and court him!
It's a good thing to see that finally some of us have waken up and take the lead.. it's about time!
We live in a modern world..than why the hell not act like it. And when it comes down to it... maybe you will loose the chance of your life, JUST because you we're conforming to the standard rules... hey the rules are there to be broken!
I can only wish you the very best!
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