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writes:i am absolutely in love with this girl, she knows this and she claims that she doesnt like me...however she has been doing all sorts of things, she has been trying to make me jealous intentionally in front of me randomly when i am in a good mood, she doesnt do that when i am pissed.she sometimes really ignores me especially on facebook, but sometimes she doesnt,,,this makes her soooo unpredictable and annoys the hell out of me.She just finds all kinds of ways to get my attention.I had prom a few days back and she went with some other dude, i, intentionally showed that i am unaffected, happy and dont care...seeing this she started dancing with him for an hour non stop and then started taking loads of pics with him. Then at some point i got pissed.I have also been trying to play these little games with her, by interacting more with her friends...but the more i do it, the more she does it and i get frustrated,,,but she knows that i really really like her bcoz she is a very nice girl in general.What do i do to get her attention and make her realize this?? how do i show this all of this?? How do i change her behaviour towards me??I dont want to get over her bcoz nothing is impossible...plz help me... :)
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reader, mrg123  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 Hmmm im not going to be the bearer of good news on this one I am afraid. Things you think are directed at you may well not be and the best case scenario bottom line on this one is that she likes it when you give her attention but has absolutely no intention of going out with you. I believe her claims that she doesnt like you and I think there is a danger of you reading something into her actions that you want to be there. You want her to be playing these games with you because you want her to share the feelings you have for her. You say nothing is impossible but the brutal truth is you cannot create feelings where none are. You cant change her behaviour. I think you have said she is aware of how you feel. I'm sorry this is a bitter pill to swallow but I see no way you can win this girl. I really think you do need to move on. Sorry and good luck.
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