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writes:I started talking to this girl that's in my English class in college about three weeks ago. Since we both take the train to school, I suggested we meet at the train station in the morning and walk to school together. (This was about two weeks ago) She agreed. I suggested it again the following week, (about 1 week ago) she agreed again, and we exchanged numbers. Since then, I tried texting her twice. First time, she answered that she was in class and she'd text me later. She never did. Two days later, I tried texting her again. She answered very minimally, and then didn't respond.To make things worse, she's friends with another girl (girl B) that I hooked up with about a month ago. To get rid of Girl B, I told her I wasn't emotionally ready for any relationship, and I'm worried that Girl B talked to this girl about this.Plus, I saw on her facebook that she had these playful statuses about some guy. While commenting on something, she basically asked him out, and he basically said yes. So there's a good chance she likes him, which is bad news for me.Basically, when I'm with her, she's super into me. But she never makes any initiatives when I'm not with her, and she's not keen on texting me. Now she made moves on another guy on facebook. Is there hope for me? Should I keep trying with her, or just give up?
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Hiyaaa,
Well then just be her friend just for now and find out more about this feeling towards this guy.
Girls particularly like friendship before relationship so if you keep that going you never know... :)
Lots of little lurve,
Ima FreAk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply! Just to clarify, she isn't currently in a relationship with this other guy, it just seems like she may be interested in him.
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (17 April 2011):
Hiyaaaaaa,
Whoaaaa you must met this girl loooooool!
Honestly just be her friend don't try and ruin the relationship that she has and just be her friend. Comfort her when she needs it be her pillow when she falls because you gotta show that your capable of making her feel safe and don't weird things out. You can keep the conversation going.
At the moment she is taken so just be friends but when she isn't maybe try a bit harder to get her but just for now leave it and carry on with this relationship. And be there for her too!
Remember good things happen with time!
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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