New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244969 questions, 1084324 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Is he playing a game here or what is going on?

Tagged as: Dating, Friends, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (16 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is really frustrating i'll keep it short and simple.

There's this guy who i like i've never spoken to him before i've just seen him around but we both know of each other. I really felt he was attracted to me to and lots of other people who watched and heard about his actions said it too. So i did subtle things to get his attention and flirted through body language to make it be known.

Then i started getting the feeling he didn't like me how i thought, so i stopped doing it and carried on like he was just another person. But when i started doing that he started trying to get my attention and kept looking at me a lot!? This has happened quite a few times now. So whenever i let it be known subtly i like him he seems uninterested, but when i'm the one who seems uninterested he seems interested!!?!?!

Is he playing a game here or what is going on......

View related questions: flirt

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, mrg123 United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2011):

mrg123 agony auntI think the most obvious explanation is that you both are playing something of a game here but not the kind of game you think. You obviously both like each other and are sending out the right signals but now we are at the stage where somebody needs to take the plunge and be the one who speaks out and asks the other.

So...over to you. Good luck!

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011):

Nothing is going on and when a guy is interested in you he will make something happen, sorry. I would move on and maybe when he sees that you are no longer staring at him and giving him attention he won't assume you like him too much and it may spark his interest.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Is he playing a game here or what is going on?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0156257000053301!