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41-50,
*eme3q
writes:I had dated this guy that was five years younger than me, he has two kids and I have two kids, I feel like I gave him my all, he has a cheating problem, around the end of december he lefted me for other chick, however came back in february, this time he proposed and seemed happy a couple of months go by I notice he started acting distant, we went to pre martial classes talked to the pastor, he decide a month before the wedding he wants to wait, still was calling once a month, last Sunday brung his new chick and sat right behind me haven't heard or seen him since.
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reader, meme3q +, writes (8 September 2010):
meme3q is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks ladies, my esteem is bad and it was one of the hardest things to get over, my pastor never sugar coated he just gave it to me like it was plain and simple I thank him for that. God is good, I'm good now and preparing myself for my real husband. I need that.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 I love the tactful way you express yourself. Rather than calling him a scumbag, you say he has a cheating problem. It's a bit like saying that a thief has a stealing problem.
He has no problem at all, he is probably very pleased with himself. The problem is for all the nice women like you that he gets to illude and betray.
Thank your God that this negative influence is out of your life, and that you have been spared much pain and humiliation. And if you ever meet another cheater ( I hope not ) do like Aunt Askoldersister says : do not reward negative behaviour ! Do not take him back after the first slip up !
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