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writes:Hey, i'm a genuine guy from Australia who fell in love with who i think is the perfect girl for me. I met her on holidays 5 weeks ago and only spent 5 days with her. She was travelling with her best friend both from Slovakia. We spoke of a future together in depth and have an amazing bond. The problem here is that she has been living with her boyfriend for 2 years back in Slovakia and loves him but wants to be with me more. She has to finish her university studies for a year then wants to come and be with me here in Australia. How long do i wait until she leaves her boyfriend to be with me? or am i not being realistic here? anyone been in this situation? would love to hear from you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your responses, i really appreciate you taking the time.
She is still living with her boyfriend and said she plans on leaving him step by step as it would kill him if she left suddenly.They have been living together for 2 years. I've decided to just be more of a friend to her and no more "i love you" anymore. If she ever decides to be single well then i'll consider being with her as i can see it easily working with us.
Her window of opportunity with me is closing fast but i will never say never.
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 I think you should contact her, and ask her outright what her plans are? when or if she plans to realy leave him? and if not, please could she let you know asap so you can move on. I hope this helps. xx
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (7 September 2010):
 How do you know for sure that you weren't "just" a holiday romance? And...... Do you really think you can trust a girl who has a fling with one guy while still dating another?
If she really did care she would not be living with him at all after meeting you.
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