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Who should propose first... me or her?

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Question - (7 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2010)
A age 30-35, * writes:

Hi...

Me and my girl are having a good friendship for the past 4 months. We know about each other very well and to be frank I Luv her and I know she Loves me too but we never proposed each other.

Should i propose her? What if she denies me? Or should I wait for some more time. Please help me with suggestions.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010):

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Tnx guys I'll wait...

I meant Proposing my love for her.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (7 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntAlthough you can't put a timeline on love, 4 months is a little too early to propose to someone you barely know. Take the time to get to know her first and make sure this is who you really want to marry. All you have is time there is no need to rush into marriage, people whom I know that have done so are signing divorce papers not even a year later. I'm not sure how it is in your culture but in mine guys generally ask the women..now I do know a few women that have proposed to their boyfriends but it's not common. Give it a year or 2 then see how you feel, if you still feel like she's the one then propose.

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (7 September 2010):

TimmD agony auntWhat do you mean by propose? Here in the US proposing means you are asking your partner to marry you. Is that what you are asking? Or are you talking more about dating or becoming boyfriend and girlfriend?

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