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writes:I mostly hang out with guys although i have a few girl friends. recently my girl friend made me realize i had a crush on one of them without realizing it. when it told 'john' one of my guy friends he asked the guy i liked if he liked me. 'john' told me he paused before saying no. Im not sure if i should harbor my hopes and risk the chance of being dissappointed or get over this crush. also the girl friend that made me realize this, now talks to him more than she talks to me, its lik shes trying to steal him away from being even my friend. what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the responses :) Some of the answers were really helpful. Also to clear it up, she asked if I liked him and told me to think on it. She didn't say that i liked him obviously.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): Haha wow Ims orry about this "girl friend" of yours. Dont believe peoples words ever...discover who a person is and their feeling if any for you by simply arranging to speak with them on your own. This is why I keep relationships private so that other people stay out of my business. They have no place in such an aspect of my life and being young as you Id consider doing that as it can help you greatly and create sooo much less damn drama.
I think this girls playing a game with you and unless you still play connect four, I say cut her out of your life doll and pursue men entirely on your own so that you dont hafta deal with this nonsense. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): She said you had a crush, that you were unaware of?? He was asked if he liked you. He said no. Now she is going after him. End of story. How can she betray you, when he was never yours in the first place, and he didn't want to be yours anyway? Just get on with your life and stop getting lost in trivialities. And wish your girl friend good luck. And next time you decide who you like, by yourself.
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (14 November 2010):
Hey now, don't over think things. Life doesn't have to be as complicated as you're letting it on to be. Don't be the one who's always suspicious of other people's intentions. If you're friend is talking to other guys, even ones who you like, let it be.And if this guy does/doesn't like you? Doesn't matter. Just be yourself. Be confident and happy with who you are and you'll attract the right guy. If the guy you like isn't attracted to who you really are, you're better off with someone who deserves to be with you and sees attraction in who you are.Trust me, life doesn't have to be as dramatic as the world says it should be. Be happy, be bright, be positive, and be ecstatic about who you are. The rest will fall into place.
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