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writes:ok my and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years and we've never had sex because we were fairly young when we got together so i didnt want to just immediately sleep together!! We do other stuff lots but we've never actually tried going the whole way so valentines day is coming up it would be the perfect time to have sex but i want to make it really special and fun, so i went out and bought sexy underwear, candles etc. but i want to do a little lap dance to tease him a little bit but i havent a clue what men like. I know this has been asked before but only by younger people so answers were restricted please help!Id like to be sexy but classy i dont want him to be like jeez shes a hoe. lol thank you =D
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a million for the help guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): It will hurt D: Very badly.. I wouldn't suggest giving him a lap dance to lose your virginity.. it should all just flow into place. The first time I tried a lap dance, I got so embaressed with his eyes on me I ended up just sitting down and gave up rather quickly because I couldn't stop laughing Though maybe you're a confident person. If you do a dance like that for him.. he won't think low of you :/ He'll be thinking more along the lines of "I'm lucky :')" Make sure you're in control, have lots of eye contact if you want it more sweet, and cling onto him.. it helps lol.. but the pain is worth it in the end D: GOOD LUCK :')
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): There's no such thing as classy in the bedroom, sex is about passion, as long as you are enjoying yourself and you are into it then you'll be fine, don't be afraid to guide him during the process, if he's being too rough slow him down with your hands and if you want to him to speed up tell him.
Communication of what is working and what is not can be helpful during your first time.
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