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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Im fustrated with this and hope someone can help. Im friends with this man, that ive grown to love. We use to get along so good, always flirting and helping each other out even talking a little online. (we're co-workers) Ive asked him out before and he said 'no' cuz he doesnt go out of the house unless he has to. He says he likes talkn to me and says we get along great. BUT..... talkn about girls (in general) and expecially talkn about sex makes him uneasy. Hes a grown man from China, so its not like hes a young man just starting out.I know he was very busy career wise in his country and the ppl form his country arent as 'open minded and carefree' as we are in Canada. Ever since ive asked him out, he's backed away from me we barely talk at work and he doesnt come online, althou he did mention he looks at my pix on facebook but...things arent the same as they were before. Ive msgd him online and he ignores it. I miss the way things were before and now im not sure what to do?
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (14 January 2010):
 Back away from him a bit. Maybe you are a little to forward and some men find women like this overpowering. In time he will softening. Let him make any further moves now.
If not forgot him in that waya nd remain friends.
Good Luck!
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (14 January 2010):
Just start off by waving hi from across the room without approaching. Or just say hi without striking up a long conversation. Over time he will see that you are not as forward as before. Also, he might be gay and he didn't want to start anything knowing his situation. Just give him space to make him comfortable again.
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