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writes:Ok I have a problem..I never showed any of my boyfriends my feet because I'm very insecure with them.I love my boyfriend and we are about to move in our own apt. He never seen them. I would like to do all tha fùn things with him that all the girls with pretty feet can do like walk on the beach and take showers with him,etc.my friend says they're not that bad but I think they are...what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for all of thee advice guys!! It did help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for all of thee advice guys!! It did help
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (14 January 2010):
Oh come on now, personally I have a thing with feet, I think almost all feet are ugly. My feet aren't beautiful either, but hey we gotta work with what we got. Go get a pedicure, they will seriously make your feet look 10 times prettier. Also, think about your boyfriends feet. Ugh, some mens' feet I've seen...calluses, gross toenails, and not to mention they're hairy. I promise, your boyfriend is not going to judge you by your feet, unless it's something that you can take care of that you haven't been.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): Sweetie, If he really loves you, he's not going to be thinking about your feet. All girls have something about themselves that they don't like, yours is just your feet. But, he should be thinking about the good time he's having with you while doing these things, NOT how your feet look. I'm sure they're not that bad but like I said, he'll be more focused on you yourself, not just your feet.
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reader, Noman Fayez  +, writes (14 January 2010):
Just forget it. You do not make your feet. If your boyfriend or anybody else likes you, cares you then it will comes from your morality, good behaviors, humanity, your feelings for nature, etc. You control these things. However, a part your body does not. So, please be happy with what you have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): You need to start getting comfortable with them... they're yours, and for LIFE, so get used to them! We guys love our women for who they are, not their parts. We love confident women, and hang ups are a pain, so please let a guy fall in love with a healthy (and confident and proud) woman (who's also HUMAN, and not PERFECT!
Go get a pedicure, get used to exposing your feet, get used to people touching them! Relax and enjoy what God gave you and take as good of care of yourself as humanly possible.
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reader, LaPointe  +, writes (14 January 2010):
Get over it!
I used to hate EVERY SINGLE THING about my body. I had redonkulously bad self esteem. I would have sex like pretty much fully clothed. And then this boyfriend loved me enough and thought I was beautiful and he made me feel comfortable enough to just be naked and not give a damn. Now I am even more comfortable with my body when he's not around. I used to be so bad I wouldn't even want to be naked in a room alone with myself. Now I can walk around the house naked, with him there or when I am by myself. I shower with him, etc, etc.
Just take the risk. Maybe tell him you're a little insecure about it so you need him to be sensitive. And then go for it. I'm sure he loves you and will be good about it and might even think they're cute!
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reader, The Realist +, writes (14 January 2010):
 I think that you should try to get over it with the help of your bf. He's not going to judge you based on your feet. He's with you because he loves every part of you. Try to build up your confidence and show him, it will only get beter from there because you'll now have someone to talk to.
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