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*razydaisy3o2
writes:Ok so here's the deal. I met this guy while we were co-workers in the DHSS office we worked in. We started talking and dating and he ended up leaving the office for another job. Things started getting more serious, so I asked him what his intentions were to make sure that we were on the same page. His response was that he wasn't ready for a relationship yet, especially since I have so many limitations on me because I'm a single mother of 2. He said he really liked me and wanted things to remain the way they already were for now. So we've continued to date and spend more and more time together over the past 6 months. He spent Christmas with my family and I've gone to his family's house for several special occasions. I spend the night there once or twice a week, and the other night (Thurs.) he had his out-of-state friend on speakerphone while we were laying in bed watching "Jersey Shore" and his friend asked what he was doing. He told him he was just hanging w/ me and his friend said (in Spanish) "oh Novia, right?"....which meant "oh your girlfriend, right?". He made it very clear (or so I thought) back when we had the whole relationship convo that we were just friends, but I don't think that he was aware that I understood what his friend had said in Spanish, and he just changed the subject. Ever since that night he's been avoiding me. We were supposed to watch a game on Saturday and he never answered my calls or text, and wasn't home all weekend. Usually he texts me everyday but today (Monday) I didn't hear from him until I texted him at 7pm and he claimed he just got outta work and was hitting the gym and would text me later. Then at 9pm he texted me saying he was cooking dinner and promised to text me when he was done....and I haven't heard from him since. This is so unlike him, he's been acting so strange and so obviously avoiding me for the past 4 days. It's tearing me apart, I had just realized right before this all happened that I'm in love with him. I know something's up, I just don't know whether I did something wrong or if he's seeing another girl or what it could be. I don't know whether to confront him about this or not? Please, give me some advice and insight into this mess?!
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reader, fishdish +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Maybe he caught that you understood the whole "novia" thing and was really embarassed that he's been sort of caught thinking more of the relationship than he was 'supposed' to be. you can always have another page match up session, are we still just friends and are we still getting what we want out of this type convo.
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