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female
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30-35,
*issywissy2001
writes:First off let me say he has a very good job. Now we met in September and by October he had to be deployed untill this summer. When I was with him I was the happiest girl in the world. I just got out of a bad relationship, my ex was marriend and never told me so I have really bad trust issues but with him it's so different. He has not lied to me and he keeps his promises with me. All of my friends don't approve me with him except my Best Friend. All my other friends say hes in it just for sex and hes taking advantage of me, and I take all their advice to heart but at the end of the day he makes me smile. When he calls me overseas or I see him on webcam I can't stop smiling. So my question is is this whole situation rigt or is he taking advantage of me?Thanks!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (12 January 2010):
Ummm, you've only spent time together with him for a month...out of the info you've given us there's no way for us to suggest that he's into you or using you. If he still calls you and such, I couldn't see it as using you, but it can get lonely for them during deployment.
The thing is, is that you're sticking up for this guy like you've known him for a while, which you haven't. A month is nothing and some chats here and there while he's overseas doesn't mean anything either. Just slow down a bit and see how things go when he gets back, you hardly know the guy. I dated a guy in the military about a year ago, and he was a little quick with things and that's something I'd be careful about--know him first before you make any decisions.
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