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Is he playing hard to get or not? Should I just dump this guy?

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Question - (3 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi

So basically i have been going out with this boy for a few months now, but i feel that he doesnt really love me even tho he says he does. When i text him or chat to him on facebook he takes ages to reply and doesnt make much conversation and when i ask him when we are next going out, he says he doesnt know. When i see him at school he almost blocks me and doesnt treat me like a girlfriend

Our school is doing social dance for p.e and i said that i was going with him and he kept sayin 'do i have to?' And all that.

I really like him and apparently he likes me but im sure whether to dump him or is he just playin hard to get?

Xxxxx

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (4 December 2010):

Denise32 agony auntUnfortunately, I don't think he's playing hard to get.

It sounds as if he no longer considers himself to be your bf. Sorry.

You are both very young, and its better not to have a steady bf-gf relationship with anyone at your age. You should have lots of friends - including boys - but not take any of them too seriously.

There's plenty of time to start dating when you're a bit older. Right now, your focus needs to be on your studies and having fun with your friends......

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A female reader, Shumillicious United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2010):

Shumillicious agony auntRight. i had the exact same problem last year.

If he takes long to reply then it may mean that hes talking to other girls or hes trying to show you that your bothering him but i can be wrong. Some guys find it difficult to be themselves on fb or even on the phone. If you think this is very unusual for him to act like this then its important for you to ask him if anythings wrong. X

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