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writes:A very close friend of mine is involved with a man for more than 3 yrs and in spite of the fact that she knows he has a live in GF she has continued to see him(is she right in doing this? of course she isn't BUT I guess the heart loves who it loves). She recently told me that this man stayed over her house for the entire night, something he has never done the entire time they have been seeing each other.She asked what it could possibly mean now that he did what he did and spent the night at her house.I told her the first and foremost thing is that no man/woman that has a GF/BF living together or not if they cared about the person they would have done what this man did with you.So obviously he DOESN'T care anything at all for whoever this GF is.Next I told her that there is usually a progression once someone starts to spends nights over someone's house.I told her that one of the first things she could expect (even though it may not happen anytime soon BUT will happen again) was him spending another night at her house and another. The next thing I told her was don't be surprised if he came to your house with a bag of his clothes.I know in my heart all of what I said will eventually take place BUT IMO she's crazy for even allowing him to think that it's alright to move in with her.What does anybody else think? Am I correct on what's to come next? Reply to this Question
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Yes, you told her the truth. Doubt she listened, though. She'll need you when he finally breaks her heart.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (4 December 2010):
 I think what you told her was spot on. You told her the truth. She may not have wanted to hear it, but you were acting as a real friend.........
There will only be heartbreak for her down the road if she continues to date this man. Nor is he, or she, free to do so considering he lives with another woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): ~TRUE LOVE IS ETERNALLY INDESTRUCTABLE~
If true love is what they share, they will inevitably share the same home address.
~YOU CAN RUN FROM LOVE, BUT YOU CAN'T HIDE FROM IT~
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