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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hitoday this boy i have the biggest crush we talk in class alot but never outside class got caught smoking and sent home cause hes under age , also today we had an exam and he missed it cause of it, im not just doing this for me but for his health and education , how do i convince him or say something to try and stop smoking thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): word of advice: don't try to change people. if you hang out, and he starts smoking, feel free to tell him you don't like that. but if you go up to him and lecture him about smoking, i can guarantee it won't go the way you're hoping. you won't come across as kind and concerned, you'll come across as holier-than-though and bitchy. if he's a smoker, he already knows the hazards that come with it, and he will not appreciate you lecturing him about it.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (3 December 2010):
 You most likely can't "MAKE" him stop smoking. What does his parents say? Were they not informed? that 1. he smoked and 2 that he was sent home?
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