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anonymous
writes:I am 25 and am dating a girl my same age for three months. We hit it off great and see each other many times a week and we both want a long term relationship. My issue is with her sex drive. The first month we had sex many times and it was great. Then it was almost a whole month before we did it again. Now its been almost a month again. She is on lots of medication for her severe migraines (pain killers and antidepressants). She says she used to have a high sex drive but the meds make it almost non existant. I in no way want to force her to have sex when she is not in the mood but I feel less close to her when we don't for an extended period and feel bad about initiating. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): It is true that some kinds of anti depressants can cause you to lose your sex drive. My advice is to ask her what kind she is on, and if she misses having sex with you then she wont mind you asking her this question. She can go to the doctor and ask for another kind of anti depressants because not all make you lose sex drive.But if she doesnt want to change meds then maybe you could something that could really turn her on[ lubricant,ect?] . I wish you the best of luck.:]
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