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writes: me and my long distance boyfriend kissed for the first time today,it is the first kiss ever for both of us. i didnt feel anything although i love him so much,actually the kiss was terrible,it is nothing like i imagined ..he was so nervous and just sucked at it.my question is will the kissing improve?or it will always suck like the first time?i love him and i am not gonna hate him or leave him just because our kiss sucked,i just want to know is there a chance kissing will be better or no?thanks
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 You just had one kiss? Well dear you, you need to kiss more. Don't judge him based on just one little kiss, even statistically that is unheard of. You need more kisses in order to establish if he is, or is not, a bad kisser. And then you need to practice with him.
Kissing doesn't always come natural. A great first kiss doesn't mean anything other than the guy having a ton of experience with it.
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (12 August 2010):
Well why don't you be the teacher it can be fun! while your doing it.
Good Luck!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (12 August 2010):
 If you think he's worth staying with in spite of being a bad kisser, then there's only one thing you can do, and that's teach him. Next time he goes for a slobbery bad kiss, stop him in his tracks and tell him that you want to show him how you want to be kissed, and then kiss him like that. Make sure neither of you have been drinking, and that you have a supply of mints handy for both of you.
Then show him. If he doesn't get the hint, then be honest with him and tell him that his kissing style's not doing it for you. That might make him upset, but at the same time, he wants it to be good too. He's also inexperienced.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): Relax hun, if you both lost your 'kiss virginities' to eachother, than chances are you both suck it it - but trust me it'll get better. It just takes practice.
I was in a similar situation with my ex, our first kiss SUCKED, but we got better, we were even together for five and a half years after that haha.
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reader, Janice25  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 Well.if the first kiss sucked it might mean there is not enough attraction between the 2 of u.
But u can always kiss him again more times, just to make sure.And if, by then, u do not feel anything- passion and warmth- in his kiss, Girl, I´m telling u the relationship
may not go far.
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reader, BeSimplyTrue +, writes (12 August 2010):
 Yeah, first kisses can definitely be like that, and that's no predictor for how future kisses will be :-) I wouldn't worry about it!
Both of you are so nervous the first time--heck, first couple of times, even--it's really something you just need to trust in. Be patient. Remind yourself how much you love him and want to be close to him, and the rest will follow.
P.S. Same also goes for other sexual adventures besides kissing. Don't let the first time discourage you!
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (12 August 2010):
 man of course it will get better with time i think you guys should practice a lot with each other you're so cute both of you (wish i'll try my first kiss soon )....so enjoy each other and trust me you'll make from it such a great fun later......good luck dude
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): Yeah it was nerves and uncomfortableness. The first time I tried to kiss my girl, I got her on the chin lol. I got a lot better though with practice.
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reader, iowarules  +, writes (12 August 2010):
So you imagined it was going to be awesome and it was less than sweet. BD. Not the first time you've run into something that didn't turn out like you thought it would. Your imagination got ahead of you. It happens. This guy is obviously liking you. He's nervous around and wants to impress you. How do you know he didn't have the same feelings about you when you kissed him. Lol my first kiss i think i got my gf nose. That was less than sweet. Kissing is like riding a bike. Practice makes permanent. Yes you both will get better with the more kisses you share. Don't sweat it and don't worry. If you love him does it really matter? One thing can enjoy is watching him grow in his technique and him in yours. GL
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): So you imagined it was going to be awesome and it was less than sweet. BD. Not the first time you've run into something that didn't turn out like you thought it would. Your imagination got ahead of you. It happens. This guy is obviously liking you. He's nervous around and wants to impress you. How do you know he didn't have the same feelings about you when you kissed him. Lol my first kiss i think i got my gf nose. That was less than sweet. Kissing is like riding a bike. Practice makes permanent. Yes you both will get better with the more kisses you share. Don't sweat it and don't worry. If you love him does it really matter? One thing can enjoy is watching him grow in his technique and him in yours. GL
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): Kissing... yes... my first was appauling! It is a bit like anything- you improve with practice. You both need to relax and take it very slow. Try doing a little lip touch, then another one. Take it slowly. Don't dive down each other's throat. Some if the best kisses I have had have taken their time. Just be gentle with each other.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 Kissing is a sloppy old business :-) But yes it will improve. Have fun kissing :-)
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