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writes:HeyaWell basically i dont know if my girlfriend/bestfriend for 4 years... truely wants to be with me or is cheating.First of all, shes 19 im 18, she wont let me tell anyone we are going out, because her mom would cuss her out she says, and make her life hell.She is 19, and she hasnt wanted sex in the 12months weve been together almost. she says she wants it actually, but ''some mystical power makes her body feel horrible the second i go to do it''She always goes clubbing with just her 2 girls, i ask why am i not invited she says, its ''just us girls'', i can understand needing girly time, but going clubbing with me NEVER is sorta dodgey.She always lets me down, i told her this, and she asked me 2 c her, as a last chance, what did she do? still let me down, and then her answer was 'i dont deserve you ive proved that'/ when i asked what shoudl i do? she said you should dump me..... i said want me to dump you she said yeah, i said?? so you obv dont want a relationship, she said yeah i do, but you SHOULD dump me.all day, she never sends me a text, maybe she is busy i understand that, and i understand she is an individual.she never flirts/talks naughty with me.when i asked her how goodlooking am i 1-10 10being highest she said 7.5..... and i asked about this man i knew she liked, she didnt answer, she tried to avoid the question. and she said why bring him up? leave it in the past. but the fact is i know she wants to give him a 10.i said, if you met another lad better, which you wont, would you leave me? she said, it depends......?and im thinkin =\ why would it even depend you should be saying im sooo good lucking and you wouldnt even look at another man?i give her everythign she wants, well i think so........ ]is she cheating
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reader, april1116  +, writes (13 November 2009):
 yea i think so and you should let her alone. she wants to have sex with other men so let her go. there are plenty of fish in the sea. let her go and move on
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 November 2009):
It doens't matter what she's up to. She's not worth another moment of your time or effort. She doesn't want to be with you, but doens't want to dump you. So dump her, end all contact (you really deserve better), move on and you'll find someone else.
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reader, good soul  +, writes (13 November 2009):
 its very clear dude.
she has no interest in you at all. how else do you explain 'dump' me and 'mystic forces' ?
dont waste your time on her. go looking for other girls.
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