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My mom won't let me be with my girlfriend without a parent there

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Question - (20 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2009)
A male United States age 22-25, *llgunner writes:

My mom won't let me see my girlfriend without a parent with us. We've been dating for over 6 months and I really want to be alone with her. What can I do?

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (21 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntSorry kiddo, you're stuck being supervised for a while.

Sounds like your mom is on the right track, especially after hearing you say "I really want to be alone with her".

I'm not saying you want to have sex or anything, but your mom really has the right idea.

Just enjoy being young and carefree. Too much responsibility and drama comes with having sex. It's not bad to put it off for a while.

Really, unless your mom won't even allow you two to watch tv in the living room without an adult, then you just have to deal a bit.

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A female reader, molly4 Australia +, writes (21 March 2009):

molly4 agony auntearn some respect from your mother, let her knkow that you can be responsible enough to be alone with your girlfriend. maybe arrange for a date to the movies or in a public place so she knows you wont get up to anything. just act like a respnsible adult and she will treat you like one. hope this helpes!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

Well with all do respect. Your young, and all though we are in 2009 and alot of people think things should be so open. Your parents are right to have supervision. Your at the age where exploring can lead to some things you can't handle. You will have plenty of time to be grown, and do your thing. Trust me when you become an adult there is no turning back, just relax and follow the rules. It will be ok, You only have 18 years to be under someone's guidiance. Adult life is until you die.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

your mother is just trying to look out for you to make sure you dont do anyhting "silly".

talk to your mum and tell her that she can trust you and your girlfriend to be left alone and that you need time alone to have a healthy relationship with your girlfriend.

your mum will be happy that you are grown up enough to talk about your situation.

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