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How to get back to where we used to be?

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Question - (20 March 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,

My bf and I have been together a bit over 2 months. We broke up for a day, and I kind of lost a lot of the trust I have for him. We don't really have much time to spare anymore, but when we do, we call each other. I'm happy just to talk to him. We had said before that we loved each other (we weren't together for very long, but we had been best friends for a significant while before that. We haven't made out in over a month, we've barely hung out in that same amount of time, and he's opposed to PDA. We just don't have the time to be together. What can I do to get us back to where we used to be?

Also, I wash bfs first kiss. Weirdly, he was naturally amazing at it. He found the soft spot on my collarbone immediately. He's very adventurous when it comes to kissing, but I don't know what to try. He laughs at me whenever I try soMething he's done. Any tips or tricks I could try that'd be new to him?

Thanks a bunch!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

you learn everyday.... pda :) give him more pda and panda.

Star.x.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

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Sorry, PDA being public displays of affection.

And thank you SO much for the advice!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

i am pleased you are holding off of sex - at last intelligent teenagers :)

Its worth the wait. hugging and kissing is fine for now.

Star.x.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

i would spend time with him - together and talk.

i am not sure what PDA is?

but it sounds like you miss him, but you need to talk and spend time together alone.

Star.x.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

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I asked advice, and I appreciate the help, but must you mock me? Hahaha

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

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By the way, were 15 and are morally against having sex yet

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A male reader, Just a Guy from Oz Australia +, writes (20 March 2009):

Young lady - if only the world's problems were as complex as yours! World peace may be in reach. However, this does not denegrate from your issue. Hmmmm, it is a hard one, but I suggest you rewind those long 2 months and think about that which attracted him to you, and you to him. Was it joking, laughing and being crazy? Try again. Relive your youth. T:)

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