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writes:I am not pretty at all and I love a boy so much but when I proposed to him he rejected me saying that I am ugly. I felt so embarrassed? Now what should i do? plz help.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Why have you decided your ugly because someone who hardly knows you told you you are? Or because you have been surrounding yourself and listening to negative people. As long as you are a good person your beauty will last the years, you will still be beautiful in your 90s and onwards!
Move on I know its hard but you have nothing to be embarrased about everyone gets turned down at some point.
You will find a great person and remember confidence, enthusiasm and a good heart will win you the best man-just wait a little while longer. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): In many parts of India it is tradition not to have relationships before marriage. If he/she is interested in someone then they must wait until they are of marriagable age. They will then inform their parents of who it is they like they in turn will contact the beloveds parents and they will all meet. The two potentials will then talk and if the feelings are recipricated enough they will say yes to marriage and court for a while before the marriage occurs.Therefore as the person who wrote this message is from India I dont think it is a hoax.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Love yourself first...then you will be able to find a real relationship with someone who also loves you back for who you are. x
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 are you actually serious?because why would you propose to someone you're not in a relationship with and you called yourself ugly and said he called you uglyso if you think you're ugly and not with this guy then why propose?i'm thinkin this maybe a faker.sorry
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Is this a real quesiton?
If it is, nothing against you, I would jsut like to believe that people are not actually so heartless and rude.
But I am confused, becuase if you proposed, then I assume you were already in a relationship with the guy? I mean, you didn't just purpose out of nowhere did you?
And if you were already with him, then that meant he was ok with the way you look.
So please, if this is not real, spare us.
If it is, my sincerest apologies. I don't mean to offend.
As for what you can do..
Honestly, move on. He said "no," and why would you want ot be with a jerk who is willing to say somethign like that to you anyway? Don't you deserve better? Or at least a man who loves you for who you are?
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