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writes: This is'nt an advice question as such, but I do require help.I know it would be difficult to say, and every case is different, and you probably have no idea how you would act in the actual circumstance, but;What things would you never put up with in a relationship and most certainly leave your partner for doing?Thankyou. Reply to this Question
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reader, we-are-nowhere  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 cheating , lying and ofcourse goes withot saying .. abuse
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reader, niki20  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 well ... i would leave if he didnt love me , he cheated, he lied, he was verbally or physicaly abusive. if i was not happy. no communication. like cerberus said little white lies such as o i like that shit even though you hate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Things to leave a marraige for:
Physcal or emotional abuse, to my child if not me; cheating; lyeing with the refusal to stop
Thigns to leave a relatiionship outside of marraige for:
emotion, physical abuse to myself; lyeing; cheating; contantly broken promises; does not make you feel good about yourself; cannot compromise; no communication; no fun together; too different to enjoy any activities together
Relationships should be much pickier in my opionion in the beginning. That way you don't end up marryign someone and regretting it, becuase "oh i guess we weren't that good together afterall."
~SY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): This is kind of variable depending on the individual.
List of what I would not put up with:
Abuse. Verbal, emotional or physical.
Lack of sexual activity in a long term sense and without a valid reason or attempts to fix it. I have no problem waiting or anything like that, I had one girlfriend refuse sexual activity for a month as a form of punishment for something I supposedly did but she wouldn't tell me what, as soon as she said "If you don't know then I'm not telling you" I ended it.
Lack of communication. See above.
Cheating, there's never an acceptable reason to cheat, ever.
Lying, trust is the basis of any relationship, only white lies such as "I like your new haircut" or "you have a nice singing voice" are acceptable to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Texting you something and then texting you literally 3 texts in the next five minutes angry that you didn't reply. Sitting so close to you that you felt that he was trying to sink into you and always demanding to hold hands, getting extremely jealous of your male friends and asking you not to talk to them.
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