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writes:I just wanted some advice, because I really feel like my bf is jst using me. We knew each other really well b4 we went on our first proper 'date' and by the end of it we were snogging. Since then we have had abt 5/6 dates and every time he just wants to get physical and seems disappointed when we're not doing anythin, eg he wants his hands down my jeans in public n down my top, and even when we're out shoppin he wants to go to the changin rooms n have some 'alone' time in there, which we have then gone and done, and I have let him do quite a bit in there! i've asked him outright if he just wants me for the physical stuff, and i've told him that if that's all he wants then i could be anyone really, but he's denied tht and said he loves my personality too otherwise he wudnt be talkin to me every night on the phone and that he liked my personality before we went on our first date so liked me then. So do you think he's usin me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): I havnt slept with him, and we've known each other for about a year (as really close friends and then gradually a bit more than just friends) before we started actually dating and saying we were gf and bf. That's why i though it was ok at first but just am not sure if he's using me.
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reader, shania +, writes (12 June 2009):
 Does this fella take you anyway? or is it up a back alleyway somewhere? It does sound like he is using you and why should he be disappointed if you dont put out? He should be happy enough just to get to know you first, but all he wants to do is have a quick leg over. Lose him honey....he's wasting your time.
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