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writes:Why do guys whom I dont want a relationship with keep pursuing me like they are obsessed? And the one I really love is not? Could it be that I am being to easy with the one I want to be with? Do I need to act more aloof with him? I know some men need to chase you...should I be not as available? I don't beleive in games but perhaps I should be playing one with him? Any advice I really like this guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): All the things you've said are true and possible in your situation but it's also possible that he doesn't like you in that way.
If you don't believe in playing games then don't play them, be true to yourself. If you really like this guy then just ask him out, it really is that simple. Only fools play games because they believe that guys should be the one to make all the moves. If you get a guy by playing games, then the game never stops and you will always have to play.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 well if you like this guy play it cool.
if he does the same with you.
don't act overly interested flirt around a bit with him then play him at his own game.
act like your interested then don't it'll keep him on his toes.
if he texts you don't reply straight away give it a few hours or something.
don't act over eager to be with him let him do the running to you for once.
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