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Why do boys like touching girls' breasts? Should I let him do it?

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Question - (11 July 2009) 15 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2010)
A female Malaysia age 22-25, *idanswers writes:

Hi, everyone. I've been dating this guy for about 7 months and we make out quite often.. Sometimes when we're kissing he would put his hand underneath my shirt and start touching my boobs.. I get really upset and i'll show it to him.. Should i let him touch? I also need to know why are they like this..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010):

its really up to you whether or not you let him touch them.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010):

Boys are like that because they're curious and don't have any plus they want to make you feel good.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010):

boys likes to touch the girls it is bcoz it is only attraction not sex... the like tat part because it is squeezabe,bulgy so they get attractd to girls vry much. dnt allow the boys to do tat so. so just ignore tat type of mistakes

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

well ive always found it to be kind of nice... and dont worry about it feeling dirty, ive had guys feel me up before, and ive managed to stay a virgin[= it feels EXTREMELY good, for u and him. just do let it go to far if ur the abstinent type.

but yeah, a nice breat massage always feels great, especially when ur on ur cycle and they're sore... sorry that was too much lol[=

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

You should only do what you're comfortable with. I personally love it when my boyfriend touches and massages my breasts. My boyfriend says boys like touching girls breasts because they're soft, fit in their hands, and they like it when your nipples get hard. Be warned though if you let him touch your breasts he may want to go further.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

well you have know eachother for a good amount of time and you seem really close. ive never had a boyfriend so you should get comfotable and work your way up to boob statues. im a c36 and boys try to feel me up and i say no so just say no until your ready and the way you can show your emotions to him about it without him breaking up with you is incredialbe so he will under stand if you say im not ready or not yet. he is a good guy :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

hey my names tori and i have bunches of guy friends im more of a tomboy so i know how they can be and ive hade a guy do that to me before.....ummmm it just depends really i mean if u really like him alot and u guys have cemistry then i dont think its a big deal if he wants to do that to u but thats just my opinion :) hope that helped

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009):

Well, they're soft and warm and squidgy with nipples on the end, right? Nipples were designed to be sucked. I know they're meant to be sucked by babies, but there's no harm in re-living old times, surely?

He only touches them sometimes? He's a strange one, that's for sure.

Since time immemorial a woman's breasts have been an object of adoration, fascination and fantasy to men. Long may they remain so. I think you'd better get used to it. Every guy you'll ever go out with is going to want a handful followed by a mouthful sooner or later.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (14 July 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntDirty????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009):

Well guys are going to be guys regardless.

and it all depends.

So times, That can lead to sex.

I mean, think.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009):

some of the answers to this question are absolutely dirty.

if it feels like he is clinging onto you every six seconds i know how you feel, just try and ignore it but sometimes when you ignore it sometimes boys get the wrong idea and will dump you... trust me it happens.

just ignore it and go with it, dont let it go too far.

glad to help (:

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A female reader, nidanswers Malaysia +, writes (11 July 2009):

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thx 4 all the answers... it helped a lot..

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (11 July 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntYou got boobs, try touching them. It is just fun to do!

They are soft, warm and react. Most girls do to.

But really, are you asking why boys like to touch girls here? Why do you like to kiss him? When you kiss him, where are your arms? Just hanging by your sides or hugging his shoulder, touching his ass?

We like to touch and feel each other because it feels nice and makes the other feel good. It is called sex and seems to be fairly popular.

Should you let him? Your choice, if you are not ready to proceed this far, then you are not ready and he should respect that. But it seems to me there is more going on here. Why does it upset you so much?

Just not being ready to take it that far is a valid reason. But eventually if this or another relationship proceeds further then making out is part of it.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (11 July 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntYou got boobs, try touching them. It is just fun to do!

They are soft, warm and react. Most girls do to.

But really, are you asking why boys like to touch girls here? Why do you like to kiss him? When you kiss him, where are your arms? Just hanging by your sides or hugging his shoulder, touching his ass?

We like to touch and feel each other because it feels nice and makes the other feel good. It is called sex and seems to be fairly popular.

Should you let him? Your choice, if you are not ready to proceed this far, then you are not ready and he should respect that. But it seems to me there is more going on here. Why does it upset you so much?

Just not being ready to take it that far is a valid reason. But eventually if this or another relationship proceeds further then making out is part of it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009):

haha, well he does it cos he likes you.

Dont rush into sex but consider it, its not the end of the world to have some fun!

Men tut

lmao

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