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Dating: Help and advice

Dreams about my girlfriend cheating one me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Alright so I have a girlfriend, yes I am a lesbian. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years. And lately I've been having dreams of her cheating on me with her ex's, when I say ex's I mean every single one that she's had. These dreams are ...

Any tips so that he lasts longer than one minute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, and have fooled around a lot before that. He never seems to last long... At all. Is there any tips that could help him control himself so he's not done in one minute?...

I thought he was the one, he can't be if I keep wanting to break up with him though, can he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I dont know what to do, I'm going out with this boy and I really like him but we always argue and I doubt our relationship and sometimes I want to dump him but don't know if I should. I met this guy over IM and one of my friends knew him so I went ...

Why has my boyfriend's interest in sex with me waned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I usually have a normal sex life, but for the last 3 weeks we haven't had sex once. I know I could initiate it, but I feel like if he REALLY wanted to have sex I wouldn't have to. He usually has a higher libido than I do. ...

Help in masturbation...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - This is a little embarrassing, but I need answers! I'm 19, have NEVER masturbated before in my life but I'm not a virgin (I've only had one partner) and the guy I'm with now doesn't believe in sex before marriage. I like him a LOT and I can see ...

Since my hymen was already broken from sports, why did it hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were at my house alone today and we ended up in a play fight over the remote. Well, it resulted in sex. We got so turned on that we got physical. It was unprotected and it hurt. I was a virgin and this was my first time. I don't ...

I'm having mixed feelings... What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - So my guy friend asked me out the other day and on friday we hung out I was really excited to see him since it has been a year since I've seen him. I feel like when he asked me out I was just going along with it but I was pretty sure I wanted to go ...

What should I think about this present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - hi quick question what should i think about this? a guy gave me an engraved pen with my name on it for my birthday?? ...

I will feel like an idiot if I ask her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hi On Friday last week I asked a girl to the cinema via msn. She was really hinting before. I told her mate I liked her and when I said to her I shouldn't of told her I feel like an idiot she replied that I shouldve done it. Then after that I Said "...

Want to send ex bf a flirty birthday message that doesn't push it too far. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - It's my ex's birthday on February 25th, and I still really like him (after 5 years). We met up recently after not seeing eachother for 5 years, and my friend thought he was still fond of me. Anyway, I usually give him a happy birthday text! T...

Lived together and argued. Living separately, we're fine but now she wants to move in together again.. I'm worried.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend lived together for over 2 years. However towards the end it got very strained and we were arguing every few days. Sometimes we got on great, but other times I received verbal abuse and occassionally physical too In the e...

Told my bf he's have to work to see my new bra. How do you think he'll go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - hi i teased my boyfriend and tried to sound sexy the other day by telling him when we meet tomorrow he is going to have to work to see a new bra that i have brought and he says that he likes a challange and is looking forward to it..but what things ...

One minute he's courteous, the next, he teases me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Men, I need your help. Or women if you have had similar experiences. The guy that I like is very confusing (I know which guy isn't, right?) One second he's offering to brush off my car and holds doors open for me. And the next he'll tease me w...

His porn watching is so bad I've even thought of having an affair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I'm 42 and in a relationship with a man who is 40. He has recently been injured at work and since then he would rather sit in the bedroom in front of the computer every waking moment.. He watches so much porn that one would think it would make him ...

Do I get on with my life or wait in the wings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I was with a guy for a year and a half and one day he told me we should take a break. After a few weeks this break became a break up. I sadly kept asking him why can't we just back together and he told me it's because he still has feelings for his ...

No matter what I do I just can't seem to make him cum! Help!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and experienced and I'm 15 and still a virgin, but we've touched and I had oral for the first time with him and our sex life seems great but he can get hard, but cum with me. I mean I can get him hard in less than 2 minutes but no ...

Need ideas on how to break up, without hurting her too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I want to dump my girlfriend but i dont know how. We have been going out for a year and i have gone off her. I know it sounds really mean but i cant help how i feel. I have fallen out of love and dont fancy her anymore. I dont want to hurt ...

How can I stop him from making me feel worthless?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months and I love him to pieces - more than anything but the problem is he does not make me happy. A few reasons are: 1) He will never admit he plays any part in any argument we have- he will al...

I need help choosing between them, advice would be appreciated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - alright, to set it off, im bi, currently liking girls. problem is choosing between two of them. alright, heres the scenerio, basically, im torn between two ladies. when we start to look for significant others, we have certain "ideals" right? ...

Dating a 50 year old woman, she says she's pregnant, another man may be involved, yeeks, what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - i was dating a 50 yrs old lady by the way iam 45,i knew she was seeing other men but now she told me she is pregnant i dont even know what to say iam pro life its just a mess...

He is separated yet still married, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I met a man recently who is 14 years older than me.He is married,but has been separated from his wife for two years.He also has two children.He told me that he is still married because he's worried about upsetting his children if he gets ...

Should I tell her or am I being silly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - A few weeks ago, a girl I liked a lot, kept asking me to buy her flowers. I was still under her influence because I liked her a lot. There was a new girl I liked, but at the time nothing had happened. Even though this other girl had a boyfriend she ...

What's the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I have just got back from spending a couple of hours with the girl I like this afternoon. Only our second one to one meeting. A bit longer than the first, which just over an hour and a quarter. This was just over two hours. I had a lovely time an...

Is he really that into me or was I just serving a purpose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I joined a dating site back in Sept and after a few weeks I met someone. We went out on a date and met up a few times before christmas but with conflicting schedules we kept in touch casually. Im suppose I was old fashioned at teh begining and I ...

I'm upset that he says he loves me yet he is seeing someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey cupid, I need a great advice, I have been in a relationship for 2 years one of friendship with a boy of UK... we find each other random in one of the online games groups. The point is that we care so much about each other. 4 months ago we be...

I don't think he loves me... should I leave him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I live with a guy, he tells me he loves me but he never wants to kiss me or have sex with be but he wants me to give him oral sex when he watchs porn. He sometimes has sex with other girls! We have been living together 5 months. Should I leave ...

How does he feel about me after our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I went cinema with this guy. We had a good time. He sent me a text saying how great it was and we should go out again and gave some suggestions. I text back argeeing. Its been a week since, and he seems pretty different. Doesnt speak online fir...

Is my long distance boyfriend just "friends" with this girl or is there more to it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hello readers! I have this problem with my Bf. He's been keeping such distance from me, reason being he's working extra hours and has very little time... Which obviously doesn't prevent him from contacting his Gf. Well, that's what I'm also trying ...

How can I tell my shy girlfriend that her pubic hair is turning me off sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hey I've been with a girl 18 months now, And everything is ok. Only thing is I REALLY have a thing against pubic hair, I'm not a shallow guy or anything it's just a REAL turn off for me. Everyone has things with make them excited and turns them off ...

Obsessed with porn, how can I slow down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for two years. We had sex countless times. He then decided to cheat, so we broke up. Four and a half months later, I'm now with another guy and he doesn't believe in pre-marital sex. I totally respect that and all, but since we started ...

How to ask a guy you like out on a friend date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hey well I'm a gay male, and I have a little dilemma.... Well I have a crush on one of my friends and I kinda wanna ask him out, as a FRIEND! My problem is, that I get kind of shy, loose, and bubbly and he ends up assuming I'm drunk.... sorry ...

Whens the right moment to kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My ex said he didn't kiss me because it didn't feel right. I know i was shy and he was being respectful, but i want to know when does it feel right, whens the right moment etc i still haven't my first kiss and feel insecure thanks for any help x....

She's muslim and she's lesbian AND she's unhappy because of the flack she gets off her family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have a girlfriend. She is so special to me, she is my everything. We have been through so much together. I love her and she loves me. There is only one problem. She is a muslim, so it is frowned upon on her religeon to be a lesbian. Most ...

Does he just want anyone or does he genuinely want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I broke up with my bf but later on in the day i felt so horrible like a part of me was ripped away. So the next day at school he was being kinda mean to me (i can understand that) And as I was walking to class one of his ex gf's tapped me on ...

Can my parents relationship affect mine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I was wondering if anyone else thinks that the type of relationship your parents have can affect the types of relationships a person has as they grow older. Like if your parents argued a lot when you were a kid if that will make you more prone to ...

When is the right time to have the sex talk with your BF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - When is the right time to talk about sex with your bf?...

Do I still have issues to work out before I can find a great guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I'm almost nineteen and I've never really had a boyfriend. I'm pretty, smart, and I think generally awesome but I've struggled with self esteem issues for most of my life. I'm now a freshman in college and now am more confident and can be myself. ...

My friend and I like the same guy, should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey, i need help. my friend and i like the same guy, she knows i like him and i think he likes me, but i dont know if i should tell her, and im scared that if he asks me out i wont know what to say. i dont want to hurt her or him... any suggestions....

My girlfriend's convinced I think she's ugly and think her friends are hot...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

22 February 2009 (?) - My girlfriend has the worse self esteem issues. It all started when I check out her friend in front of her and say she (my gf) better looking then she is (I was a bit drunk as well). She didn't really care at first until we got home. She scream at ...

What do girls like? Gift wise, surprise wise...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - what do girls like? -gift wise -suprise wise -generally -having done to them in bed please reply all u women! x...

Last week he got a girlfriend, but I still think he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey Umm, i have a huge problem. umm theres this guy at school, i really like him, hes nice and kinda shy. well me and my friends started hanging out with him and his friends. It seems like he likes me too, but heres the thing last week he got a ...

He's upset with me, how can I win him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - This guy I met 2 months ago. Since the beginning he seem to like me and he was Ok to me. It happens I entered as a contractor in his office, so he started working with me helping me a lot in what I did. We even talked about paying him commission o...

My online man's advances are so sexual, how do I tell him that he's turning me off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i've been chatting to this guy over the last 3-4 months, he seems really nice, we just talk about school, family, parting the future.... recently he's started asking to see me on webcam (i havn't let in, yet) i kinda wanna do it because i feel like ...

Why do I continue to think about this man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. I am a female in my mid 20s. A few years ago I fell in love with a man that was much older than me, 19 years my senior. I was a student then and he was a visiting guest of the university. Neither of us intended to have feelings fo...

Is it normal for a healthy guy of 21 to be this disinterested in sex, or is it just me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - hi, me and my boyfriend are both 21 but have very different sex drives. I want sex pretty much every day, and I recon if pushed, he would want it once a fortnight (which sucks, because he is awesome). I'm well aware I'm very difficult to ple...

Help!!! How do I find out if he really loves me like he says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend always fight, we say we love each other but it feels like there is only sex and not love. How do I find out if he really loves me like he says?...