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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I be telling her these things or should I be keeping them to myself?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hi all, I'm going to go on a little rant as I need to vent my worries. They vary in relative importance and some may think I shouldn't be including such varied situations alongside each other. Some things i probably shouldn't be sharing but i need a...

If my girlfriend's grandmother and my grandmother are sisters what does that make us?

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23 February 2009 (M) - If my girlfriend's grandmother and my grandmother are sisters what does that make us?...

Is this something she's going through or is it just me should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - With our first child she wanted sex all the time but with our second child which she had early b/c she had high blood pressure and had 2 have the C section, everything has changed she's always tired she says or the couple of times she did it's like ...

Why does he keep putting his hands on my bottom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I met my friends friend a while back and we drank together and ended up kissing. He wanted to have sex but I said no and I found out he was a major player. We partied again some time later and he kept putting his hand on my butt, but I kept taking ...

Is he interested or does he just want to be friends?!

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23 February 2009 (F) - I finally got round to texting the guy I like, at the weekend. He expressed an interest in me in the past and told his friends that he fancied me, but that was a few months ago now. Things have been kinda weird between us since then and we never ...

I feel close to him but sometimes he is smothering me, I don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for almost a year now and he is the most kind, considerate, thoughtful man i have ever met. We knew one another at school but when i left home i didnt see him again for 20 years. When i got divorced 2 years ago i returned...

She never says "I love you" first, what does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 months. She got out of a long term commitment last summer that was really hard on her. We've known each other over the years and we reconnected last fall. Our relationship has moved quickly and is very ...

My boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me... and I'm getting to like it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Right my problem is that my boyfriend's best friend is always hitting on me and my bf never seems to notice so he just keeps on doing it, but now I'm confused! The other day I was at a party and I was looking for my boyfriend when I bumped into his...

He's thinks I've been unfaithful to him because my vagina seems stretched!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for one year, faithful the entire time. Even before we became serious, I was not with anyone else (he was). He has also spent the past few months attacking my past and telling me the most hurtful things about the ...

I'm feeling troubled about my relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, ok so I'm feeling troubled about my relationship. In short I've been with my boyfriend just over a year, we moved in with each other after a short while as it just seemed right. I have no doubts about this, I'm happy in my living environment. ...

What went wrong? Help/Advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I was talking with this girl for about 1 month and a half. Around the 2 weeks we were making-out, kissing, and holding hands, but we were not a couple. Then she tells me that I can't see her at all any more cause of her mom. She said her mom was ...

I need objective advice... She wants to be friends... is there any serenity in this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I began a relationship with a woman who was younger than me a little over five years ago. Initially I didn't imagine the relationship would last given numerous variables beyond our age difference, but as time went on I quickly learned that I had ...

How do I get back with my ex who lives in another country, I am willing to move there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - This is a question for all the men out here. Let's say you love a girl very much but thing did not work because of the distance but you both love each other very much. If your long distance ex girlfriend was trying to get you back but you were in a ...

What does it mean to be straightforward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Help me. I broke up with a girl and she wrote me a letter telling me that it was because i was not straightforward. Today one of my girl friends also told me the same. I felt bad because i am not like that. What does it means to be straightforward ...

Does he truly like me? Or is he just trying to get in my pants?

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23 February 2009 (F) - I know this guy (he is 22) through a friend and we all partied together a couple of times. The first time, we didnt really talk much and I was into his friend and we ended up kissing. He wanted to have sex (and is a major player) but we didnt do ...

Men, what do you enjoy most? How do you like to be teased? What can I do to make it better for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - hi ive been giving my boyfriend hand jobs for a while now and he always enjoys it and i cup his balls and we use my breats too,, but how can i make sure its GREAT for him?? men..what do you enjoy the most? what can i do to make it better for him?...

He bought me a couch at our second date!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - So i just broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago. I met a guy online shortly after and we met one time and he seemed great. Said hes new to the area but we didnt do anything - no kiss or anything we agreed that we'd, if anything, be friends. he ...

Is it because he doesn't like me that he never comes over and says hi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I really like this guy and I love talking to him and being around him, but I am always the one that has to start off the conversation! He seems friendly enough when I talk to him, and he doesn't seem shy at all. I've started not talking to him ...

I'm getting mixed signals from my boyfriend and I want to know where this relationship is going

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I need some advice please. I have been seeing this man for about 2 mths. He just took me on a vacation over valentines holiday and paid for everything. He says we are friends getting to know each other. He also has had a talk with me 2 times about ...

I think I am falling for this girl but how do I take the next step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I have just got back from spending a couple of hours with the girl I like this afternoon. Only our second one to one meeting. A bit longer than the first, which just over an hour and a quarter. This was just over two hours. I had a lovely time an...

Should I come clean or keep it a secret?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - hi guys this is me and i need serious help. am tryn to date a very hot gal who is slightly younger than iam but am afraid she may freak out when she discovers my addiction to porn. Should i come clean or keep this addiction as top secret?...

Is she attracted to me?

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23 February 2009 (F) - A few years ago, I went to a nightclub with a social worker. I was her client, but we decided to stay in touch. One day she asked me if I wanted to go out and have a drink. The night of the event I spoke to her on the phone. She said that she was ...

I want to find the women of my dreams. How can I make sure I only think with one head?

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23 February 2009 (M) - I haven't been in a relationship in over 5 months and the lack of sex is really clouding my mind. Hard to think concentrate. I'm not interested in one night stands. STDs are way too scary. I'm worried that this will tint my appraisal of the...

How do women respond to tenacious and persistent men whom they are not interested in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - So, I'm not very good at dating. I'm very shy around women. On the flip side, women that I'm not interested in are very persist about getting me attention and asking me out on date. I admire one woman in particular who's been at it for 2.5 years...

Want to try online dating but worried about ID theft and stalkers!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I want to try online dating but I'm really worried about identity theft and stalkers. The idea is very appealing to me but I don't like giving out all that info for the world to see or worse have someone not take no for an answer and follow me. I ...

Moving out for a healthy love life or staying at home for healthy finances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I'm 24 and living at home with my parents. This has obviously affected the relationship side of my life. I will be graduating from what was a very expensive professional degree this summer with some daunting debt. I'd like to move out but my ...

We flirt. He's not ready. We make out. He's not ready. Should I ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hey all, I have a slight dilema and i would love some advice. so heres the situation. a few months back i told my guy friend (ill call him X) that i had feelings for him. X responds by telling me he isnt looking for anyone right now and he would pr...

Isn't it too soon to find it weird that he's seeing other women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - i've recently started dating a man, just 2 months ago. i met him on a dating site. he says he's very interested in me but he's still on the dating site. he says he isn't in a 'monogamous' relationship with me yet and we haven't consumated that yet, ...

Inexperienced with dating women, help please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I am 22 years old, single, and always having trouble asking girls out. i have only had one woman in my life. but that didn't last long. i just have problems on getting a woman to like me or go out with me. i know a lot of girls. just not good ...

Does he genuinely like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - There is this guy who I know through a friend and we partied together a couple of times. The first time, we didnt really talk much and I was into his friend and we ended up kissing but he is a player so I think I will leave it at that. I started ...

My BF makes comments about famous women, and I hate it - am I being too harsh?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend makes comments about famous women when we are watching tv or if he sees a magazine. It seems rude to me. My first instinct is to say, well if you like the way she looks enough to brag about it to your girlfriend, then maybe you are with ...

My best friend is dating the guy she knew I liked

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Ok so when i first moved to a new school I had a crush on this guy and we became friends. Then i made friends with this girl and we became best friends, I told her I liked this guy and she knew him because he was in our 1st and 2nd period class. ...

How can I really be myself when I'm with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I'm a very shy person when it comes to crowds and a lot of people. And to make it even worse I'm still shy around my bf. How can I be myself when I'm with him?...

I'm too shy, how can I approach a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I never had a boyfriend. I really want one but I'm too shy to do so. I get to shy to even talk to my crush. How can I approach a guy? ...

How do you know FOR SURE when a man has REALLY lost interest in you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I had a really really bad date with a man I am seeing for 7 months the other day - I now question whether he has lost interest in me or is simply playing mind games again. Your thoughts as usual would be much appreciated. Please give me opinions for ...

Why can't a man deal with a facial peel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - just curious: why cant man deal with a facial peal. a peal has 3 acids that sting a little, but if a girl can handle the pain, why cant a guy? and why do they get freaked out by hearing about it?...

Why do I put so much pressure on myself to find a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Why do I put so much pressure on myself to find a girlfriend? I'm only 20 years old. I've been in 4 relationships in my life, only one of which was long term. Despite my age, I worry that I'm never going to find the right person for me. Why am I...

My question is: why does she want to talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hello, I have a question about what is happening with a girl I recently met. She was casually introduced to me by a fencing teammate of mine and it turned out that we had the same double major and were in 3 of the same classes. A few days ago she...

Depressed in love and scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - So I am currently going through depression and anxiety. I have grown up with a crappy view on relationships and men (sorry guys). I have this amazing boyfriend. He is so great but I have all these fears of love fading and pretty much any fear a ...

How do I handle this when she comes to visit me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I was with my girlfriend long distance for 3 years and we broke up about a month ago. We agreed we didn't want to date anyone else and she told me if there was to be another chance we would have to start all over, friends first, but the "I love ...

I want to leave but maintain a friendship for my son's sake.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am a 24 year old female, I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years and we have a 7 year old son! I moved out with my mom for about 4 days and came back for all the wrong reasons! I have been back for 3 days and still want to be on my own but he ...