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Dating: Help and advice

I lost that special feeling and now that I broke up with her, I want to feel the same way for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - I broke Up with My girlfriend of 9 months recently and I am so depressed. I didn't feel satisfied in the relationship because it did not feel like it did when we started dating. Now that I broke up with her I am so sad and miss her a lot. I don't ...

She wants to have an abortion and that we are over and she won't talk to me right now. I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - I have been with my fiancee for about 2 years. She is 2 months pregnant with our first child. A girl from my past text me yesterday, and, my fiancee saw it and she went off! This girl from my text said "why do you hate me?" Now, I haven't talked to ...

I kiss a lad and now he doesn't talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - me n me bf been going out for 5 months now. he hardly tlks to me and when he does tlk to me its usually about sex or me leaving him. I dnt wnt us to split up because I love this guy. He always ust to tell me he loves me but now he dunt he dunt ...

In love & he's too old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - ok i no this is going to sound weird but i go to this store and there is this 27 year old guy that works there and he is sooooo nice to me we talk all the time and he is just the most coolst guy in the world. well at first when i started going there ...

Help with paranoia & trust issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - ok... i have been with my boyfriend for just over two years. when we met i was independent, i wasnt that bothered about whether the relationship lasted to be honest. a few weeks into the relationship i realised i was falling in love. i hav...

Why is he not comfortable when I kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I'm confused about my guy. I have just started to date him in the last few weeks and he is quite comfortable when I rest my arm on him and hold his hand - but when we kiss he never uses his tongue and I'm sure he leaves his eyes open too!! - What's ...

I get guys but lately I've just been going after the ones that I know I can't have.. What is wrong with me cuz I'm a wreck right now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I'm just a mess.. me and my boyfriend broke up last week and I've been trying soo hard to get over him. I was in love with him and I got very weak but at times I was strong and I guess I'm over it. I hung out for the first time with this guy that ...

I can't tell him about my past... SHOULD I tell him? I don't know what to do for the best...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I am in a moral dilemma. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and both of us love each other more than anything else and planning to get married. In fact, I never thought that I can love someone so selflessly before I met him....

Should I stop the teasing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend gets all quiet and I can tell he's bothered after some passionate kissing and touching. Do all men get like this if the girl decides not to put out after all these efforts?!? Should I stop the teasing? I mean he initiates all this... I ...

Help me, I'm in love with my friend, but I messed it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy for about a month or two now. At first I tried to surpress my feelings but his name kept cropping up everywhere I looked. So I admitted to myself that I liked him. We'd just started to become friends at that time and we walked ...

My boyfriend is not emotional, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hello all, My story is quite long but i would love someone would give an advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, he is a very good guy. My problem with him is that he is very unemotional. He is always telling me that I look very...

My 2 best friends proposed to me on same day? What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi , I am a 25-year old working girl and have an excellent job.Since class 8th , I have been best friends with 2 boys , and we have been great friends ever since , always hanging out together and supporting each other through think and thin.c...

I am attracted to the friend of a lady I dated for a bit - What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - Last summer, I(38) went out 5-6 times with a lady, Susan(33). However, things between us didn't work out; she was "not ready for anything heavy due to a busy schedule" I kept in contact ,discreetly,but nothing came of it. Around January 10th,...

Should I accept my male friend (I'm bi) or live a lie with my fiancee?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - I am a 26 year old bi male, who has been in love with one of my male friends for 5 years. I was going to tell him a few times but I always thought he was straight. He has now told me that he fancies me and wants us to be together. I would have ...

I'm seeing a 'party boy' and I'm not quite sure what to do in some situations

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - hi, this is a silly question.. but im 18.. and lately i've been seeing this guy thats 24 and unlike me he's pretty much a party boy and i dont mind that, dont get me wrong. but he picked me up at night and we went for a drive around and the thing ...

My brother's GF will not let him go anywhere without her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - My brother's gf will not let him go anywhere without her. When he is not with her he has to be on msn with her. She has put 18 pictures of the two of them in his room. She writes him letters that say she cant live without him and that he is the ...

What can a 25 year old female do to meet guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Okay, I know you guys are going to be like "boy, her life is soooo sad" and I'll be the first one to agree with you. That's why I'm hoping people could offer me tips on what to do. I am a 25 virgin. I have only had one "technical" boyfriend and th...

I've asked her out but she keeps changing her answer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - Hello, The question that i have is that a girl that i really like has been sending me strange messages. I asked her out on a date and she said yes......then maybe.....then no altogether. She has repeated this cycle for a while now, and has sai...

I saw my ex gfs pic on a dating site and it really hurts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - Hello I am 25 my ex is 24. She broke up with me a month ago. I got a huge speach about how she does not have time, since she moved down and starting her life. I have not called her or contacted her in any way shape or form. I looked through a site ...

It means he cares, right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - hi. so.i had a problem,the guy i love (we arent going out yet but i think he is in love with me too,we are close friends).well..i had texted and called him a lot of times from the past 2 days without getting a reply.i got really scared and assumed ...

I just want casual sex - but he calls every day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I'm going through a divorce and it has been a very long time since I have been with a man. Well, my daughter introduced me to her supervisor and I explained that I am just looking for someone to help ease the sexual tension. He calls me almost daily ...

He's distant sometimes, does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy and I hear from him for a few days and then nothing for a few days. Why does he do this? Of course I act as though nothing is wrong. Does that mean he's not that interested in me? But he also has invited me to go on a ...