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I don't think my mom approves of my g/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

7 February 2009 (M - I have been going out and have been living together with my girlfriend, who has Cerebral Palsy. We have both met my parents twice. I get that impression that she cannot get used for us being together. When I asked my mum what she thought abou...

I don't think my dad will like me having a date

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7 February 2009 (F - Hi, really like this boy, but i dont think my dad will like the idea of me having a boyfriend. He has asked me on a date to the cinema on valentines day and i dont want to lie to my dad about where i am and who im with. I really like him and its ...

Does your b/f or g/f text or meet you everyday?

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7 February 2009 (F - I have been going out with my bf for three months now. he broke up with me once because he was "confused" in his life, but we are back together. My question is, does your bf/gf text or meet with you everyday or at least three times a week or ...

He wants to see me and another girl too!

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7 February 2009 (F - I have been seeing this guy who I know I am in love with, but he keeps telling me he doesn't want a relationship, but said he loved me too and really misled me. He is also seeing another girl as well which is killing me inside. He was honest and ...

Girlfriend wants to see what else is out there!

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7 February 2009 (M - Hey everyone, so here is an update on my situation. The girl that Ive been with for almost 5 years wants to see what else is out there. It has been an amazing relationship. We are our first everything and it means a lot to me, and I used to think to ...

Why is it easier for guys to get a partner than it is for girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

7 February 2009 (F - why is easier for guy to girlfreind then a girl to get a boyfreind, i find getting boyfriend next to impossible and i don't like dating web sites.i find guys don't like becasue i have a fat round face and short body thats out propertion,and chubby l...

How do I know when to flirt and should I wait until he asks me out?

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7 February 2009 (F - i really like this guy and he really likes me we talk every night on msn and have already been on a couple dates i'm really shy and bad at flirting and im waiting until he asks me out, i talk to him so much easier on msn then in real life weve been...

Anything I can do to make this dance night unforgettable for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

7 February 2009 (F - okay so i am bisexual and i am going to my schools valintines dance with this girl. we are going as dates. she dates my guy friend. he says she can date chicks too just no guys. anyway i don't know how to slow dance and i am a little shy, i've never ...

How do I give her the space she needs now if she talks to me every day?

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7 February 2009 (M - She wants space and idk what to do about it help me ( Long 10 point answer).? So basically theres this girl i like very much , even love and right now she says she likes me but doesnt like me like that because right now she cant like anyone like tha...

How do I stop making my boyfriend pay for my ex's mistakes?

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7 February 2009 (F - my ex was abusive and mean but i loved him. one day he hit me becuz i wasn't ready for sex. after we broke up i met this amazing person and i find myself making him pay for my ex's mistakes. how do i stop treating him so badly and actually start to ...

We're not romantic, what should I get him for Valentine's Day?

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7 February 2009 (F - I've been going out with a guy for a couple of months now and everything has been going awesome. He knows I hate Valentine's Day and that I really don't like doing anything for it but he told me the other night that he wants to get me something. I ...

Do women realise this about guys? Is it not true?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

7 February 2009 (M - To many women think we are playing mind games with them so guys I'm gona have to spill the beans and tell them what we are realy doing. When a guy has a great conversation with you wherever it may be and then all of a sudden seems to ignore you for ...

My friends say he likes me but I'm not sure?

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7 February 2009 (F - hi there is this guy i know through a friend and we have recently got to know each other better. we mostly talked online but have now gone out together with friends etc my friends say he likes me but im not sure, and i can't really tell! ...

What is it with guys and their EMOTIONS??

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7 February 2009 (F - this person that i am starting to see ( month and a half) would tell me subtle things such as i am here for you...i would do anything for you and would love it when i would say i miss him. but as soon as i say i feel that we're growing closer h...

I love my new partner so why did I burst into tears when I found out my ex husband is getting married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

7 February 2009 (F - can someone help me sort my head out? Im getting divorced from my husband of eleven years...he told me that he wasn't in love with me anymore although he did still love me as we have two kids(10 and 8)and has been having an affair for two years. ...

Whom should I choose?

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7 February 2009 (F - I have this problem. i'm starting to like someone else. but i'm still in love with this present guy. the present guy was some kinda, conceit but he's smart. he's kind to me when we i was a freshmen, but when he was elected as a president, he ...

How should I present his V-day package to him?

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7 February 2009 (F - Hiya all, I've just bought my boyfriend some fluffy handcuffs for valentine's day and was wondering how to give them to him? I've also got him a photo frame - a more romantic gift Lol! Do you reckon I should give him the present and then just sh...

How can I tell him "I'm a Virgin!"?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

7 February 2009 (F - I am a 23 year old female virgin that has been seeing a 30 year old guy for about 3 weeks. We have been on 4 dates so far and he made it clear that he wished to come home with me after the last one. I feel guilty turning him down, yet need a little ...

Is it advisable to have sex with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

7 February 2009 (M - i am a married man looking unto the for children, and this neighbor a married woman, i will say we seem to love each other naturally, because she confides in me on advice once a while thereby giving me advice on how my wife and i will bear ...

What did I misunderstand and how might she come around?

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7 February 2009 (M - Met a girl last summer in a city that I live in overseas (her hometown), and we had about 2 months of casual but fun dating before she moved back to the US to finish graduate school. There were no commitments made when she left, but we kept in touch ...

My intelligence may be getting in the way of our relationship, any ideas?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

7 February 2009 (? - My boyfriend (we're both 16) thinks I need to stop being smarter then him. He gets d's and c's well I get b's and a's. I don't rub it in his face at all (plus I think its rude as well) and I have been offering to help him get his grades back up but ...

Need a few answers on oral sex, please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

7 February 2009 (F - I give my bf head a lot and when he gets close to cumming he pushes on my head and I can't deep throat him ): and I gag and its embarassing and I really wanna learn how to deepthroat without gagging!...

We broke up, he says he loves me, but I hear he is trying to be with at least three girls, should I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

7 February 2009 (F - my boyfriend just broke up with me on the 3rd because of so much stress and hes depressed and things like that but says he still has feelings for me. its only been a few days i know but we have only talked one time sence then through text.......

Together for 4 years, this Valentines, he is going to a strip club, should I get over it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

7 February 2009 (F - My boyfriend just told me that he's going to a strip club with his friends on February 14th... I had planned to take him out to dinner at his favorite restaurant on that day for Valentines day... Now I know Valentine's Day is just a stupid excuse ...

What do I do to reduce my insecurities, regarding my relationship?

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7 February 2009 (M - hello everybody i have a problem. im too jelous with my girlfriend i dont say much about it but i am i and cand stand it im just too jelous i and want to be comfortable with her. i trust that she wont do anything with other guys. but still sometimes ...

Anyone involved with a cop?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

7 February 2009 (F - Have any of you ever dated/loved/married a police officer? I've met one recently and I sense that we're developing strong feelings for each other. I am hoping we might start dating but all my friends seem to be warning me not to get involved with a ...

How to finish off a great day????

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7 February 2009 (F - Valentine's Day, HELP! Ok, so my boyfriend and I are going to watch a live sports game! That's at 1:00pm. I'm thinking it will end about 3:30pm. Any good ideas on what to do afterwards?!? I haven't had sex with him yet. I wanted to go out o...

Did I ruin her birthday by saying I wasn't ready for under the pants action?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

7 February 2009 (M - okay ineed a little help... mee and my girlfriend have been going out for over 3 months now,, and she's great, i love her to death, i cant be without her and she loves me too-she's a really great grl.. so yesterday was her birthday and she...

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