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writes:i was dating a 50 yrs old lady by the way iam 45,i knew she was seeing other men but now she told me she is pregnant i dont even know what to say iam pro life its just a mess Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): Hello. before you panic see the prove that this lady is infact pregnant. Then if she can prove that she is, you the need to know exactly where you stand without her playing silly games.tell her early on that you are pro life and if she is pregnant you need to be involved jointly.This could set the stage or change the situation.Good Luck.
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reader, loving arms  +, writes (22 February 2009):
firstly if she was dating other men the baby might not be yours, secondly i'm not sure that at 50 your lady friend would really want to go into motherhood. She has to decide what's best for her, it's her body and only she knows what's best for her. In future no the pitfalls and maybe just date lady's who only have one boyfriend at a time, plus practice safe sex.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
I think you just have to back away from this one.
Tell her that you are prolife, and since you are then you must be prepared to raise the child if it turns out to be yours. You can't tell her she has to keep it but then not want to pay and be there for the kid.
Once the child is born (if she decides to keep it) then get a DNA test straight away.
It's going to be a horrible 9 months for you unfortunately but these things happen. Hopefully you were careful and used condoms and it won't be yours.
Good Luck!! xx
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