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Archived questions from: 15 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We could have waited until we were married but we let it happen too soon. I'll never feel pure again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - The first time I had sex wasn't the right way. I feel bad about it. When my boyfriend and I did it for the first time I only gave in because I thought he would abandon me or cheat on me if I didn't. It was painful and I was scared, and even though ...

Did I take my jesting too far with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

15 February 2009 (?) - My girlfriend and I went to this pool party (I live in Australia) with some our friends. My girlfriend never let me see her breasts (because of a scar on one) and she thinks it might turn me off. Anyway we were in the pool making out until my very ...

I thank you

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15 February 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship with a man whom i love very deeply and have decided to no longer be with..purpose of this story..i don't believe there is one frankly lol. I guess the great thing about leaving the man i love so much is the part where my ...

I'm on the pill. Is it safe to let him "finish" inside of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I've recently started seeing this new guy...we actually had our second date yesterday (V-Day!). Anyway, the relationship has gotten physical, and he's confided in me that he has a hard time "finishing", especially while using a condom. I am on the ...

I'm very nervous to give my first handjob.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I'm very nervous to give my first handjob. I'm worried I'm not doing it good enough, or I'm hurting him. What should I do? Any advice?? thanks!! (:...

I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hi there, I'm Kirsty, I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months on and off. We have our silly wee arguments and all that and recently I have been feeling left out. I am convinced that he is cheating on me, when I'm with him there are other ...

I have trust issues and think men are horrible...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I am turning 32 next month and hence have been thinking about relationships a lot. I have had three boyfriends and they all hurt me and dumped. I have trust issues and think men are horrible. I also blame myself for not being beautiful enough for ...

No valentine...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - If a guy (who you are supposedly seeing) didn't send you a Valentine even though he got one in return - does this mean he just doesn't care??...

Anyone got a song that relates to, I MISS YOUUUU!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Okay, my unrequited love has gone on holiday for a week, It's been two days and its ACTUALLY KILLING ME. For some reason it helps me to listen to songs related to my situation. Anyone got a song that relates to, I MISS YOUUUU!!!! Not ...

Tell me how to move on with my life and forget about him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - You know the song, Hot N Cold? I and my ex-boyfriend are just like the song. We constantly break up, make up, and then break up again! We always supposedly decide to stay as friends, but then we start kissing, hugging, and then going out again....

We were on different pages, did I make the right choice in leaving him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I had been seeing my boyfriend for almost two years and while it seemed we both wanted the same things...i carried the relationship fully the fummy part is that i was blind to this. When i realized that i was taking responsibility for our ...

How can our friendship go back to the way it was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Can a man and woman return to being friends after flirting? Let me be more specific - this guy and I have been flirting back and forth since last summer, culminating to when I was home for Christmas (gazing into my eyes, lots of eye contact, smi...

How can I find out if she's really bi and if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Im 15, and I think I'm in love with one of my best friends. We havnt been friends for that long, but i cant stop thinking about her. Im openly bi around my friends (only my brother knows in my family) , and she says that she is bi too, but i dont ...

I really, really like him but he just wants sex... should I do it anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I need some advice although I think I already know the answer. I am 26 years of age (virgin) I started flirting with this guy at work that I have known for about two years, we had arranged to go out once but it never happened, he said we wanted d...

She acts different when her Ex's are around...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - I am young and confused but here goes, i need some help my girl friend and i are fighting all the time because every time one of the people she messed around with before me comes around she acts completley different. She doesn't show the same ...

His ex is always there....

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15 February 2009 (F) - Now i been with this dude for about 4 months now. But before we were together he had a girlfriend for about 2 months. Now the problem that i'm having is that he claims he's over her and what not but he still calls her. Then on top of that his mom ...

Would seeing the scars on my thigh put a guy off?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - About a year and a half ago, I experimented a little in the way of self harm (cutting) when I got angry/upset. On the two occasions I did it, I was very drunk. On the second occasion that it happened, I was extremely drunk and was cutting my leg a ...

Is this woman in the office indirectly trying to attract my attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hello. Just a quick question if I may about office behaviour from women. I've got a big crush on this very special woman at work - we smile at each other alot (broad - not fake.......we're talking real crow's feet around the eyes type smiles here!) ...

I want to be able to date boys but I'm scared since I was raped by my friend's uncle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I was raped by my friends uncle when I slept over at her house when we were 13 (about two years ago). He was visiting from out of town, and he raped me while I was in bed (my friend slept in a separate bedroom because her parents didn't want us up ...

My crush makes me confused, your comments please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - there's this guy i've known for about 4 months now whom i have a crush on.. here are some facts that just confuses me too much. 1. i caught him staring at me so many times. 2. he cares about my feelings. im not sure but that might be his person...

What does he mean by wanting to settle down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - My bf has been talking about he wants stability in his life. He is tired moving place to place. He wants to find that one person he can come home to. He says that he really wants to settle down and hopes that I'm that person. He wants to see how far ...

Should I give in and date my friend if I'm not really attracted to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I am recently single (less than six months after a two and a half year relationship), and I have been enjoying myself somewhat. I haven't been dating anyone, but I've had some casual hookups and it's been going well. Not that I am against being in a ...

I'm confused with this girl, is it really bad timing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Ok ill put this in point form so its not a bible to read -Im 19 and this girl is 21 and we go to school together -We've known each other for about 7 months now and we're close -For a good 5 months she flirted with me like crazy drawing hearts on ...

He will only have sex after we are married, what are my options?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I've had sex countless times before with only one guy over the course of two years. This guy is now my ex; has been for over two months now. Anyways, I've been friends-with-benefits with another guy for two days now and earlier today, he told me he ...

Desperately want to have a loving relationship, but not aggressive enough to get what I need, please give me some suggestions ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Learning to date and select a mate at 49 (or is there hope for me) entered relationship 25 yrs ago lookig for lifetime companion. She wasn't the one but got pregnant and was giving in to mother and sister to abort but feeling terrible and I w...

How do you resist other girls when in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - How do you resist other girls, Been going out with my existing girlfriend for about 5 months now... And there is about 3-4 girls who are all over me when I see them and I keep getting closer to accepting one of those invitations. They know I have a ...