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Dating: Help and advice

Single on V-day..go out? or stay in?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - what are you singles doing on valentines day/night? i used to hate valentines day when i was single, but now i am kind of excited, as i keep thinking there will surly be nice single guys out in the evening to have some fun with. will you singles...

Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2506 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...

Will he return to me? Does he like me or just having fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - last week,i and my crush met in front of our school.before that he used to ignore me for a period.when he saw me,he came straight to me,greeted me and we started to chat.he asked me where i'm going and he said he's going there as well but he ...

Has he gone off me? I don't know what is going on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Theres this guy i met about a month ago at the bus stop Since then we got in touch on facebook and spoke online alot, we exchnaged numbers and i text now again. We are blatinally intrested in each other, and hes a proper nice guy so i doubt he wo...

She is being blinded by love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I have a friend that I love dearly. She is the God mother to my daughter. We have have been friends for about 12 or more years. She has been there in my corner thur the good and the bad. As I would like to be the same for her. But, for the past ...

What am I supposed to talk to his sister about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Ok... Me and my boyfriend have being going out a month. We are both 15 so we cant drive so for V - day we are going with his mom and sister. His sister doesnt seem to like me to much and he just said i many have to hang out with her in the mall. ...

I think this girl is trying to horn in on my guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - the guy i have been dating for the last few months and myself nearly broke up on sunday. first of all, i think i am reading into it too much when i am afraid that because he was willing to let it go that he really doesn't care- but he was very ...

I'm developing fixations with people I normally wouldn't be interested in! Am I desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Hi guys...any help would be much appreciated. I'm 24 and had a very nasty break up after a 4 year realtionship about a year and a half ago, and getting over it has been hard work. But the past few months, I have been feeling a lot better about abo...

A special night, but no sex, any suggestions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Please Help! I'm supposed to plan a special pre-Valentine's Day for my boyfriend. I'll pick him up and we take go from there. I want it to be special but no sex! He's open minded but I want him to enjoy it! What can I do? I don't want to do t...

What went wrong, is it really that he is not interested? Or do you think he has erection issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Hello I meet this guy where I work at a swimming pool. He goes to the gym then comes for a swim. He is very hot and very big muscular. He also comes at times with his daughter. I have known him for a while but we just started to talk more over the ...

I want her to feel special like a queen, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - I want to take my girlfriend to a special dinner in about three weeks, of course im going to take her to a dinner but its going to be one about an hour away, Dolly Parton owns it, its a dinner and a show, we may come back to town and go to a place ...

Should I send him an anonymous Valentine's card or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - i went out with this lad for a couple of dates, never saw him for a couple of weeks but saw him at weekend. I was shaking thinking hes really fit but not sure if he knows that i like him. Should i send him an anonymous valentines card or not? A...

Is it wrong to date someone who I'm very attracted to but with whom I can't see a future together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - I've recently started dating / going out with a girl (31 yrs old) who I'm very attracted to, and who I get the impression is also really attracted to me (I'm a 28 yrs old guy). Which is great. The trouble is, we both have ideas about our long-ter...

Are we more than FWB?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I work with a man that i've always been attracted to, but nothing ever happened besides mild flirtation. one night, my boyfriend and i got into a bad fight, and he basically broke up with me. We had been fighting a lot. anyway, i asked my coworker ...

Do you think he'll appreciate me more now and want to take things to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is going to be working at a job that is two hours away from where he has been staying. He has been closer to me since he's been staying with family looking for a job. Nothing has changed about our situation except that now we will see ...

Confused over both of these guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Ok... this is an EXTREMELY complex problem lol.... 2 years ago me and this guy had a crush on one another. However it didn't amount to anything because he moved away to uni. In time I ended up going out with this guy's friend. Me and the guy's ...

Why do I feel still insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex last year, a good friend of mines helped me through it, now we have become more than friends, in fact you could say weve taken it a stage further, I stay at his place a couple of nights a week, we get on well, he is older than ...

He said he'll change but will he really? SHOULD he really?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Okay so here's the deal, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year, and it's online but we were pretty much inseperable. I know I love him but when I finally went to see him in person I realized some things. I realized what I really want in a ...

Is my ex trying to get me jealous???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Hi, me en my boyfriend broke like a year ago and decided to remain just friends. For months after the break up we had sex which up to now we have never talked about it, just 7 days ago he was teling me about his new girlfriend who happens to be a ...

He's accusing me of cheating and I would NEVER do that!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of one year has been accusing me of cheating on him on a daily basis (this is not an exaggeration, no matter how badly I wish it was). As of lately, it has felt as though there is some chemical switch in my brain that causes me to ...

I need some questions for my valentine's day fun!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Valentine's Day Questions? Hi there, I have been dating a guy for a few months and know them pretty well. We are spending our first Valentine's Day together this weekend. We have a hotel booked, champagne for breakfast etc. I thought it would...

I'm having sex with mother and daughter... but this can't carry on...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - This may sound like every man's dream but I've gotten myself in to something that I don't know how to get out of. About three months ago, I met a woman at work who is older than me. She is 46 but certainly looks good for her age. We both share an...

How can I tell a currrent boyfriend that I think we should be freinds instead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - How can I tell a currrent boyfriend that I think we should be freinds instead? Me and my guy have been together for 2 years or so and well I feel we aren't getting anywhere, we argue and fight with each other a lot and I don't feel love from h...

How can I encourage him? He never makes the first move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - recently i have been seeing this guy that i have known for a long time throught my high school years and we get along... we went out in out hight school year and split as young peopel do hehe no shame int hat its the proccess of going throught l...

If we were to start anything it wouldn't last, is it worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I Like this guy who is super cute just seeing him 4 a sec maks me smile n when hes not around i feel really moody n misreble but as soon as i see him i smile and get realllly happy and my friends have noticed as well. hes in the year above me and i...

I don't think she knows what she wants

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 4 months now we got drunk and went to ponderosa to eat which we do often. After we ate she asked me if I wanted to go get married I told her I would have to get to know her better that we just met and that she would ha...

Is she just bored or has she stopped loving me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of over a year now said that she is bored of our relationship! Right now we are on a break, and we have decided to try to get the spark back for her! She wants me to be more controlling, and not just give her everything she wants. I'm ...

He doesn't want a commitment but continues to flirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - There is this new guy that just moved into my hall in college. After I met him. in a couple weeks he is starting to flirt with me and it looks so obvious to everybody. He does not want a commitment/girlfriend right now but after he told me this he ...

I feel like no one will like me soon, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I'm 16 years old and this past summer I went out with this guy that was visting from another state just for the summer. We kissed the second day we met and went out for two months, but things never really got further than that. I wanted to protect ...

He's a great boyfriend but he has no motivation!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is the same age. We have been dating almost two years. We laugh, have great chemistry, share some common interests and get along great with eachother's friends and family. The problem is that he has very little ...

I keep hearing my boyfriend is flirting with other girls, what should I believe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - i keep hearing things from other people that my boyfriend keeps messing around with other girls and flirting and stuff like that. i try not to believe it, but its almost a daily thing and he gets mad when i do believe it. but im not sure what is ...

Cheated on for the fourth time- what I am doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I'm single again for the first time in a long time and I'm not quite sure of myself. I've been in a grand total of 3 relationships and they've all ended badly. I'm not sure what it is that I'm doing wrong here I mean I could swear that everytime I ...

How do I ask a girl to be my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - ok im an 14 year old boy, i like this girl at my school but i wanted to ask her to be my girlfriend but i dont know if she likes me and im too nervous to ask her, so how do i ask her to be my gf?...

I'm afraid my girlfriend might get bored of me. How can I prevent this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - hey guys im really afraid my g-f might get bored of me. i love her soooo much and shee loves me too we always talk about our future together and enjoy it. but lately im getting vibes shes starting to get bored of me its nothing she says or does i ...

He's been offered a job someplace else, and he hasn't called me back to talk about it yet. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - So this is a dating dilemma, sort of. I have been dating a guy for some weeks now. Things are going great between us, he admits that we have good chemistry, respect for one another etc. Though, something he is puzzling me. I will send him a txt and ...

He's afraid to commit, will he come around or never change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - i am a 53 year old woman, was married for 28 years, divorced 5 years. have been very careful with my heart in the new dating game again, until now. i met a man i have been dating for 10 months, we have both been through the same situations, both ...

How many of you have had to deal with homesickness during college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I think this is like two questions on one... well. I guess I just need lots of advice. I'll try to make it short. Basically, in a nutshell, I am a momma's girl and I've always felt like I needed to be near her. I'm a junior in high school and ...

My friends are trying to set me up with a girl, but she is "fast". I know the are trying to help but...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - I have a problem, well here it is guys, My friends have been basically sick of seeing me alone without a girlfriend for so long. And have decided to try to hook me up with a girl. Well from what they have told me and my one friend who i really trust ...

Another rubbish night out. How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Hi. I've had a really lousy evening on the town. I went to a club and I was completely bored. I was approached by a couple of girls tonight, and I did absolutely nothing. I just can't communicate in a club. The music is just too damn noisy! Vale...

Is he looking and signing up at porn websites? please help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend gave me his email password along time ago when we were just friends and he knows I still have it. Anyways I always go though my junk and delete it but he never does so I go on his and do it for him. For the last 2 days there have been ...

When a guy asks their girlfriend to get on birth control, does this mean he's thinking of something long lasting...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - When a guy asks their girlfriend to get on birth control, does this mean he's thinking of something long lasting...? You know a more serious relationship? Maybe... trust, love, or just wants to feel the 'real thing'? ...

Is it unreasonable to ask my bf to keep his Playboy mags out of my sight?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I sincerely appreciate the response of men to this topic. However, I am always discouraged because it ultimately ends with the conclusion 'it's normal' and/or guys will become addicted no matter what. I really want men to GET what porn CAN say to ...

I feel I need to give him SOMETHING to keep him interested. Am I right to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Curious - I've been with my boyfriend for a few weeks now. We've discussed sex and all. I told him I wasn't ready yet. He was understanding but said 'I still have my needs'. He asked that I agree to at least BJ's. I didn't say anything at firs...