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Archived questions from: 18 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is this not something that should have happened for me by now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I won't go in to too much detail coz I'll be here all night. I was just wondering if it's weird that I'm 21 and never had a relationship. Sometimes I think I don't have time for a boyfriend but a lot of the time I feel really lonely and wonder why I ...

I feel trapped and attached with this married man, how do I get out of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship with a married man going on 6 years I always hoped that we would become a permanent relationship. I gave this man my heart and soul and just knew that one day we would go further as being a couple and that he was ...

Is it asking too much that he should stop paying her stuff altogether and help me if he lives with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend lives with me and is recently divorced. He pays out quite a bit so I haven't asked him for money to live there. It's been 3.5 months and he hasn't chipped in for anything. He has no kids with his ex and she works full time and he ...

The romance rut!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I feel that me and my boyfriend of over a year have fallen into a romance rut. I want to try something that will really wow him and hopefully spark something inside of him to make him show more affection. Any suggestions?? ...

Why did I say no when I wanted to say yes to his proposal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and he recently asked me to marry him. He is the most wonderful man I could ever have asked for, but for some reason, even though my head and heart wanted to say yes, I said no. I've broken his heart and ...

I just wanted to know how I keep it at the level of 'potential' girlfriend, without getting too close.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I've met a lovely guy, and have been on a few dates as well as talking on the phone/online etc. He has been very open with me from the start that he isn't sure what he wants yet, We have both just come out of bad long term relationships. ...

How can I stop getting so angry at him when I'm out drinking with friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I have a problem that's really starting to get to me. I'm 19 years old and been with my boyfriend (22) for 7 months now. We have a great relationship, very caring, loving, trusting etc, however our only problem is when I go out drinking... If I'm...

I am presently in a relationship however I am interested in another guy... what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - hey I am presently in a relationship however I am interested in another guy who in many ways I think is the one for me since he fills many gaps that my boyfriend doesn't. I love my guy but I am also in love with the other. how do I move on. Plea...

Should I go see my ex for reasons of our split and maybe see if we can save our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I was seeing this girl for about 4 months and she was really keen on me from the word go. After only about a month and a half she burst into tears one night when I could'nt have sex with her without a comdom on as for some reason it hurts me to not ...

How do I get this girl to lay off my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm 13 and I live in the nice part of Kent. I'm really stuck at the moment because I have a really nice boyfriend, and we used to share everything, except now I have a problem - my best friend, who went out with him in year 7 is being a ...

I've cheated and been taken back, but can I still be friends with "the other guy"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I've been with for a bit more than a year, but before our anniversary we fell out (Broke up and made up 4 times) and I cheated on him with our friend who had a crush on me. The friend shares a lot of interests and ho...

Am I safe???

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18 February 2009 (F) - Hello everyone... guess what, I had sex with my boyfriend on valentines day and it was unprotected, I took the post pill the next morning and the second pill was supposed to be taken after 12 ours the first is and I forgot and took it after 24 hours ...

Can she keep using the kids against him to make sure we stay apart or could we be together and him still see his kids???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I am a 19 year old girl and I was seeing a man of 33. We have known each other for nearly 5 years but we were only seeing one another for about a year and a half 2 years. When we first got together he had a girlfriend which I knew about and two kids ...

He finds it so difficult to move out because of the children...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Myself and someone I work with fell in love with each other about 5/6 months ago... we both told each other and things progressed in to a "love affair". There was one problem though. I had a boyfriend, who I ended with because I had no feelings for ...

Am I just a booty call or is he really just not ready for a serious relationship??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - So there is this guy I met we went out and had some drinks and talked for hours we later hooked up that night.. He doesnt really call anymore just text about every night.. Sometimes to come over or just to see how I am doing.. We see each other ...

Marriage before I go away to the navy??? Or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says that he wants to marry before I go into the NAVY and that this is our engagement stage.... oh yeah we have been dating for 7 months... but any how when I tell our mutural friends he comes back and asks me why did I tell them that ...

Is she the woman he subconsciously wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a very close female friend and perhaps I'm just reading into it too much but it seems to me that she's the girlfriend he's never had. When she walks into the room, he lights up and shouts out her nickname. When he talks to her, ...

My g/f thinks I won't wait until shes ready to have sex... What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I am 19, my gf is 16. We have only been togheter for a month but already talked about sex. She is a virgin and I have slept with 5 girls in the past. She said that she wants to wait until she's ready and I tell her that I respect that and am willing ...

Baby mama drama makes me doubt my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - me an my bf have been together for 2 years. he has a son and has full custody of him--mother has visitation rights. i have a hard time dealing with the situation. he tells me there's nothing to worry about because he loves me and he's with me. but ...

Did she want to see my junk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - this past summer i had a girl out at my house we were going to sit in my hot tub outside then go swimming in the pond after that. well the thing is she didn't really have a swim suit and so she wore her t-shirt and her swim suit bottom. and she goes ...

He cringes when we talk about feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Need help. I have been dating F for 3months. We're both 28. He's a great guy and a kind heart. However, he has not been in a relationship in years and I think we are having different expectations in this relationship. He is not the most sensitiv...

Is he using me till something better comes along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are generally happy. The problem is that he has never told me he loves me, he says that he would probably cheat on me if the right opportunatity come along and he wants to marry someone who is from ...

Was it bad of me to reply like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - So this guy I've been talking to for the past week feels like I've been putting all the effort by texting and getting him to hangout. After the last time we hungout I didn't hear from a week. I wanted to text/call him but I was waiting for him to ...

I'm confused between friendship and love....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Last year I started loving a girl whom I have been knowing from the past 3 years. She has been a very close friend of mine. I always admired her and also told her that I like her the way she looks and etc. We have even gone very close and have been ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't know how he feels about me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Right, some background. My boyfriend and I met through a friend. We had flirted on a few nights out and ended up kissing at a party a couple of weeks back. The next day, we had a long chat, and we have been talking every day since, and seeing each ...

I am leaving in 3 months. Is opening up worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 February 2009 (?) - Hello, Ok. the problem is simple. I miss my ex, but I do not love him, if it makes sense. I miss our moments and I wish me and my bf had those momenst too. (we've been together for almost 4 months) not exactly the same, but that things were similar....

I've cheated on her 3 times, now she said she needs space! How can I rectify this problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend says she needs space from me, because I cheated numerous times and she took me back every time (cheated about 3x). The last time I got caught she saw me in pictures with the other lady, she forgave me and gave me another chance and ...

How to make a player fall in love with you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - How to make a player fall in love with you. I don't like to play games but I deserve a really cute guy I'm cute and the cute guys are always players. So how to I get myself one?...

I'm not IN LOVE with him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hey guys and girls. Here's the thing - and it's a pretty big thing to me so need some help! Been with my fella for 3 and a half years. I know that I love him. We get on amazingly and are really similar, have a laugh etc and understand one another. ...

Should I move on... or get even???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I recently meet a younger guy, I thought he liked me but it turns out he has numerous partners and is now using his new partners to make me jealous. What should I do? I am absolutely gutted about this. Shall I move on or get even?? ...

Is there a way to tell him I'm ready to lose my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Well I'm still a virgin. The person I'm dating isn't and I was planning on having sex but I'm not sure what to say. I wanted to know is there a way to tell him I'm ready to lose my virginity?...

He is so established and knows what he wants, and one thing he wants is a woman who will have sex with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Dear Readers, I met this guy Dec 23. I am head over heels for this man, I am 19 and he is 28! He is so established in life, but most of all his is very religous as I am! His words sit in my head, when he touches me I stop breathing, just yesterday ...

She's very sick, and pushing me away.... What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I have been with Jenn for 8 months, we were friends for a few months before that. I am a songwriter in Nashville, and she lives in North Carolina. Jenn has severe lupus, and is in pain a lot of time. She is only 26, and it kills me to know how badly ...