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Dating: Help and advice

Do you think that it is probable that I could simply be a rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Hi. There's this girl who I've liked, but I've never really done anything about it until recently when I started hanging out with her more. She just broke up with her BF, and she seems to like me too, but I'm worried that I could just be a rebound ...

I'm worried just in case I'm not fully developed...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

1 February 2009 (?) - Ok this might be a stupid topic but it took all my courage to ask this question. I'm seeing this girl, we're great mates and I really love her with my heart, she keeps trying sexual advances on me and well I'm kinda scared in case my penis isn't b...

My boyfriend lectured me on my lack of experience with clubs.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Hello. I guess this is probably not a very important queston but it's made me feel uncomfortable and pressured to change. Ok last Friday me and my bf went out clubbing. We had a quiet drink on our own first at a pub then met my mates in the nex...

Now why would she do that? Wow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I went over my boyfriend's house to spend a romantic night with him. Found some explicit messages, and long story short the chick he was cheating on me with came over and everything exploded. He claims I wasn't there for him and I didn't give him ...

How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job????

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job???? We've been together for over 3 months and made out a lot.. and I've done a lot of oral for her so I think it's just fair for her to do it for me tooo... see she's a little afraid that she won't ...

Am I better to move on and see her only as a friend or stick in there and try to work it out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Previously my girlfriend and I were living together until when out one night she grabbed a strangers crotch when I was away from the table we were sitting at. She claims there is nothing worng with what happened. Upon arriving home I told her to ...

I'm finding it extremely hard being away from him and its very unsettling for me,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together now for just over a year. We both love each other very much but in oct 2008 i went off to uni. I'm only 19 and my boyfriend is 25; but were experiencing some real problems. I'm finding it extremely hard bei...

How do you get over young love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I'm fourteen, my ex boyfriend is fifteen. We have known eachother since we we're about twelve years old and have had on and off flings ever since. It wasn't only until November 2008, we decided to go steady. My ex boyfriend is a little trouble...

Will it last if we both live at home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Do you think it's possible for my boyfriend (age 29) and I (age 25) to have a SERIOUS relationship even though both of us still live with our parents???? I'd love others insight on this....

My brand new BF bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - My very new boyfriend bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday only two weeks after we had met. Although I had told him that I have never had anal sex before and wouldn't mind finding out about it, I felt that it was way too rushed and made me feel ...

Girl who didn't want a realtionship with me - can I date her best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Last summer, I(38) went out 5-6 times with a lady, Susan(33). However, things between us didn't work out; she was "not ready for anything heavy due to a busy schedule" I kept in contact ,discreetly,but at the same time I kept dating as Susan ...

Next time I see my gym crush, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I go to the gym about 3 times a week. For a while I liked one of the trainers but after realizing we had a big age diff. and he had a girlfriend I decided to move on. Today I went to the gym. When I got off the eliptical to use the weight machines...

He needs to realize that if he keeps acting this way, he'll lose me and his friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I'm in love. I've been with this boy about 4 months and i'm sure its the real deal. The only thing is i've done alot to make this work including fighting with my mom..[she doesn't approve of him] why? because of his ways. we fight, break up and then ...

I really want a girlfriend but nobody asks me out, what should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - im so depressed!!! i feel lonely and miserable all the time and i really want a girl friend.. ive never had one in my whole life...im 14, even though my parents dont allow me to have a social life or a girlfiend..and even though im a little i...

Why is it not happening for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Hi, Ok, im 21 years old and iv never had a relationship. i seem to be the only one out of my friends that doesnt have a boyfriend. men just dont seem to be interested in me. i do talk to them but theres nothing worse that being in a night club and...

What are his intentions for going out with me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I can't put my finger on what is my boyfriend's intention of going out with me again. I went out with him for about 2 months and he wanted a breakup saying that we are not "perfect" for each other. I mean, come on, it's a restarded excuse...

Contact? Of leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - hi would like some advice was seeing someone and said was too busy with work etc to see me, havent heard from him should i give him some space and leave him alone or should i contact him? would like some advice,...

I want a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - im 17 havnt had a boyfreind since i was 14. im attractive even if i do say so myself but the thing is men or boys dont seem to be intrested thy treat me like one of the boys we have a laugh ect. im allways myself around boys/men.. bubb...

What do the keys and code mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - I need an unbiased and neutral second opinion… Ok, recently I spent the whole weekend over at my girlfriend’s house alone for the first time in our relationship. We have only been together for a short while now. But, over the weekend, she gave me...

Will my chances of concieving be greater as I've had antibiotics?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Hey there, a quick question. Me and my boyfriend have just decided to try for a baby. Last Friday I started penicillin for tonsilitus, one day after that on the Saturday I finished my pack of contraceptives, I finished my pencillin on Friday and ...

He says the hugs he gives to other girls are just friendly hugs but I can't help being jealous.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year now but he is always hugging other girls at my school, and when I talk to him about it he say's they're just friendly hugs and don't mean anything, but I can't help feeling jealous? What should I do ?...

An unlikely pairing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Is it possible to fall in love with someone even if you really don't fancy them? I have started a relationship with someone, but can't get over the fact that I don't fancy him and feel uncomfortable about it. We are an excellent match in many ot...

I just wish he could quit thinking his friends are the coolest things around and can do whatever the heck they want.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I don't even know what's going on. I was complaining about a friend of my boyfriend's trying to charge me more for something than he really needed to. My boyfriend told him something different that was lower and he was fine with it. So, he was just ...

I lied to him about my age... how can I tell him the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I lied to my boyfriend about my age. When we first met I was 18 (and he was 27) but I told him that I was 19. It wasn't a huge deal because it was only 1 year but now I'm about to turn 20 and he thinks I'm going to be 21. Going out to bars and clubs ...

Can I drunken snog lead to more?

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1 February 2009 (F) - ok heres the thing had a drunken snog with this lad that i used to have a crush on many years ago he asked me if i regreted it and i dont and i dont think he does to but where do i go from here a date, or just like hanging out? i do like him and i ...

I want to be in a relationship with him but he's emotionally abusive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - How do you let go of someone who you care about so much and possibly even love despite the fact that they treat you not right sometimes? I have a friend, who wants to be in a relationship with me and I want to be in one with him too, however, Iv...

He's going to be with his baby mama on Valentine's Day

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - i aske my x boyfriend of 1 year what he doing for v day and he said he gone to be with his baby mama so how can i tell him i want to be with him for valentines day???...

Trying to connect with g/f but not successful

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Hello I have a little problem.. Well I have an Idea what I am going to do about this problem but I am fully not aware of what I am fully doing. So heres the story. I am currently dating a girl. I'm not for all of the lovey stuff and I am in ...

I have no network of friends he's conquered them all

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I've been thinking of leaving my boyfriend for about a year, but I feel completely lost and helpless. We've been together for three years, but I feel like most of the time he has been emotionally and psychologically abusive. At the beginning of ...

She is sending me mixed signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - me n this girl just went on a date sorta thin to da movies and we held hands n stuff durin it but like thru the whle movie she was textin other guys coz and fliritng and i told i dont like it wen u flirt wiv other dudes and she said she wasentr ...

Is there a point where its too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Allright long story short there's a girl in my class I've been crushing on for a while. Specifically like 3 months. Maybe more. Anyhoo we get along great, there seems to be some connection, currently friends (though not GREAT ones), yada yada but ...

21 year old dating a 15 year old?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - So I recently have been attracted to a younger gal. The thing is shes 15, and I'm 21. I've been to dinner with her family many times, and they like me a lot. They invite me to a lot of occasions, dinner and drinks every week or so. But I'...

I asked her if she was my girlfriend--did I blow it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Me and my girl have been dating for about 3months we go out to eat a lot and she usually kisses me when I take her home. Or just when she feels like it, when we first met she was all over me and we had sex. But she said she didn't want a relation...

Girlfriend gone wild and unreasonable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend (20 years younger) and I had a drag out name calling fight today. This has been building up for several days and exploded today. Her problem is she thinks every time she wants something from the store (usually food) or go on a drive...

I'm afraid if he leaves I'll go back into depression

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend a lot and we've been on and off for almost 3 years in june. The problem is we are living together now and we constantly fight. We both cut each others throght out. I've tryed to communicate shoot I even tryed to get him to do a ...

I still love him sooooo much...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - My ex and i have been broken up for nearly 5 months now and i still really love him and miss him sooo much .. i still think about him alot and it just hurts soo much because i dont have contact or seee him often ...we were togther a year and a half ...

Need solid sensible advice...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I started a relationship with a man 7 years ago when he and his wife were on the verge of a divorce. He was thrown out of his house and needed a friend at the time. I wanted to be that friend. The divorce came soon after. I had also separated from ...

How do I move in to make out with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 8 months now. There is a long story behind why I know this but I am absolutely 100% sure she is ok with me making out with her. How do I move in to make out with her and how do I actually do it? Also, ...

Yesterday the girl I've been crushing on since I met broke up with her boyfriened. Is it to soon to ask her to go on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Hi. Well today my girlfriend just broke up with me. Yesterday the girl I've been crushing on since I met broke up with her boyfriened. Is it to soon to ask her to go on a date?...

She broke up with me but her best mates and sister, seem to think that she will get back with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - It all started in secondary school. A girl who I was very fond of, asked me out after months of flirting. Stupidly I said no. I said no because I was afraid, and scared, after all she is in the year above. But during my final year of secondary ...

Why has my girlfriend gone off sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - I have been with my current girlfriend for about 18 months now. I am at uni, a mature student, she has a young 18 year old daughter with a young baby son of 8 months who lives away from her mother. My girlfriend doesn't seem interested in sex any ...

I really want a wedding and kids but sometimes I can't stand him!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years. The first year he did a lot of bad things and I wished that I had broken up with him but I stayed with him to try to make it work. He is a much better boyfriend now but I have a hard ...

I am furious right now. He doesn't mean a thing to me, so why does he have this power to make me feel even more miserable about my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I warn you. This will be long, but I need help on this situation, and I'll try to make it short. I am a Senior in High School, my old high school closed down, and I transfered to a new school. For three days, I dated this guy who was bisexual. There ...

I love my girlfriend yet sometimes I don't look forward to seeing her... why am I like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - So this is a really weird question, and I don't know what's wrong with me. I have been this way since day one of our relationship. Because of schedules and strict parents I rarely see my girlfriend. But now it seems that when I do have a chance ...