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writes:My boyfriend and i have recently began having sex, i lost my virginity to him. It hurt the first time which i expected and i bled a bit that time as well as the second time however it continues to hurt each time we have sex. I am prepared before we start and the pain goes away after a little bit but i am wondering why is still hurts and if it will continue to do so?The second question is also kinda on the same subject. We had sex the other night twice it hurt both times, it hurt at first and it took a while to disappear however afterwards i bled a bit. It stopped reli quickly but now i think i have a bit of discharge i dnt reli understand whats happening because i no the bleeding wasnt from losing my virginity because that was a while back plz help XXXX
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (10 August 2009):
 First question: Yup, loadsa girls geddit, including myself. If you're sure you're physically prepared then there ain't too much more you can do (unless you wanna try lubing up.) You just tight girl (guys prefer it providing it doesn't cut off the circulation!!!!)
Second question: Had you just finished your period? It could have loosened up some of the left overs, causing you to bleed unexpectedly. If not then it coulda been too much friction, in which case I reitterate the use of lube.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): I don't know why all this is happening but it happened to me too. I had to have sex multiple times before it stopped hurting for the most part. But even then, He couldn't go deep... That would hurt. I lost mine only 4 months ago. Good news is, everything worked out, I ended up seeing a gynecologist about three weeks after for a check up and she didn't notice anything. Also, After a few months of being sexually active, I would randomly spot after/during sex. Gynecologist didn't see anything either but a little irritation around the opening. But go to the Gynecologist. You'll probably be okay, but everything you described is basically what happened to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): you have torn the inner wall of your vaginal opening. this will take time to heal.. talking weeks here. I also recommend you see your obgyn... and make sure all is well... tell them exactly what happened. No shame in it happening.. i have had it occur and thought my period came back... then a visit to the docs explained it all... so stop having sex for a while go to the docs and take care of rough housing next time.
good luck
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