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writes:Hey theres this girl i really like and she sent me a msg saying that outta the 3 other guys shes talkin to im the only one who hasnt asked for sex or photos and she thanked me for it and said she told the other 3 other guys to leave her alone. but i know thta shes still been txting a couple of them i like her alot but i dont know if its worth gettin involved with her as i dont know if she will stop txting these other guys and if it could lead to something more wat should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, EXPLICIT00  +, writes (16 August 2009):
if you like her a lot then go for it! obviously you care about her for her, not just for her body unlike the other guys. girls like that a lot in a guy. tell her you really like her and show her how much you care about her. take her out on a nice date and have a fun time. i'm sure she'll love every bit of what you have to offer her. but don't take things too fast. if your not confident about how she will respond then wait awhile and just drop some hints. be sweet, nice, and polite. you'll win her over in the end if you do those simple 3 things. i promise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): Yeah, get assertive or go home.
And don't bust her chops about talking to the other guys. Jealous nagging isn't gonna get you anywhere. Either she's screwing them and going places with them or she's not.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (16 August 2009):
Ask her out. Take it slow. She may just be texting with them because she doesn't have anything better to do. So... offer something better to do! then keep your eyes open. If it's proceeding and she's still texting with these other dudes then you can say something like I really like you, I'd like to be exclusive. If she doesn't agree or back off texting jack@$$es then you walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): She has to know how you feel about her. She's just remained friends with them, but hasn't thought much about their behaviour. And she can because she is single. Ask her out.
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