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Dating: Help and advice

These panic attacks are ruining my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, thx for reading. Basically ive been having panic attacks on the tube n buses n car (newhere travelling) for 2 and a half years and i was able to control it better, until a week ago i had the worse ones ever and was stuck in between my ...

If we get together, and then break up, will it affect our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Ive been friends with a boy since toddler group and playschool and then our first year at school ( year reception ) Then i hadnt seen him in about 7 years but when i started senior school in year seven he was there and we were automatically friends, ...

I was sleeping with my boss, we broke up, I miss him, but my friends will disown me if I get back with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I have a slight issue in that recently I have been sleeping with my ex-boss who I used to work with. Doesn't sound too bad yet, however he is eleven years older than me (I'm 18), many of the people at work hated him, my best friend basically ignored ...

I feel like the world is in color and I am in black and white

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I feel like the world is in color and I am in black and white. I have a great job, my child attends a great school, I have a beautiful house, no real money issues, and yet I want to sub my husband for someone, anyone, else. I am pretty, smart, and ...

My boyfriend is so needy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I have a complicated relationship with my boyfriend. He always seems to be sad and disappointed that I can not spend time with him more than he would like. I told him the reason why I can not always spend time with him and I said that later on in ...

My ex had a drug habit which he is overcoming...Can we have an adult, fulfilling relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I was dating a guy for 5 months. I'm 25, and can honestly say I truly felt I was in love with him. We were from totally different backgrounds and he is totally the opposite of the usual type of guy I go for, but we worked so well together. He ...

Is he just stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Is he stringing me along?? theres this guy at work that has been working with us for just 4 or 5 weeks now, but he has helped out at our shop at before too! when he came to our store at i remember fancying him loads and always making excuses t...

He's been emailing a girl on his Bebo, should I be mad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Ok my boyfriend has a bebo account, myspace,facebook accounts etc... he gave me the password he uses for all dem before to change stuff for him ages ago and doesnt mind me goin on his page. so i logged on 2night to change stuff and went into his ...

What are good factors in a relationship to keep you together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Apart from sexual chemistry WHAT should a couple have in common to make a good relationship. My boyfriend has just split with me although our sex life was great (he said so) and obviously he msut not have loved me as much BUT his reasons he thought ...

I'm obsessing over his ex and it's becoming a problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - hi there,i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now.i love him very much and i know he loves me. the problem is im always scratching thru his things to find out what he and his ex got up too.im worried this is becoming an obsession now cos im ...

I'm in such a rocky relationship, how do I smooth things over??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

6 July 2008 (M) - Hey you guys I need some help now me and my girl have been together for 2 and half years I'm 18 and she's 17 now even though she wasn't my first I consider her my first love we fight alot And Have been separated 4 times since we been together but ...

I'm dating a guy at work but h wants to keep it a secret, but is he falling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I am messing around with this guy from work for 6 months now. He has been really hard to understand, sometimes he wants me there and sometimes he doesn't (which i can understand he needs some space, time alone). But when we are together he's ...

I always attract guys who are attatched...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Users i have a problem i seem to be attracting guys that are already spoken for and not sure what to do , my sis bf tried it years ago i spoke up and was called a liar bros and sis's not got on with me for ages i have recently been cracked on ...

I'm a drama queen in relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

6 July 2008 (M) - Dear aunty What can I say, love is somewhat one of those misteries that I do not seem to understand. Firstly I am typical drama queen when it comes to relationships, mature in my work life but a child sometimes in my personal, I blame my pass bu...

Bruising after sex, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Hey :) Great site you have here... Okay well basically me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday... all went well and we were fine (i wasnt a virgin, he was) and all was fine until today when i showered and found bruising...anyone have any ideas on...

I had trouble in my marriage and began chatting to someone else, he gave me emotional abuse for the following 17 months, telling me he hoped I get cancer, how do I report him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (M) - i have no idea where to start,i was married 22 years was in the middle of a divorce,srtarted chatting to this fellow online,we got really close decided we were going to meet, just befour we did, we had an argument,he said he cancelled his flight i ...

I suffer very badly from anxiety and my boyfriend doesn't help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - hey everyone. I have terrible anxiety. to the point where I cant do anything until I feel not so worried anymore. I havent hardly eaten because I cant keep food down because my stomach goes into knotts. I get the shakes real bad. Its just a mess for...

I don'r know how to act around my boyfriend - he is my first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I Love my boyfriend, but i don't know how to act around him. I'm so shy that its not funny. He calls me "beautiful" always says he loves me, he is a total sweetheart. But I don't do anything back.. is that bad? What am i meant to say? Do i call ...

My ex and I are talking again and still have feelings for each other, but he still talks to other girls...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - my ex and I are talking again we've been dating 4yrs now and we recently started talking again we've had alot of arguments and rough times i'm 20 and he's 28 right now we're trying to work at things but he's still talking to other girls aswell as i ...

My girlfriend said I took her virginity, but I read her diary and it appears she lied...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 July 2008 (M) - my girlfreind clams that i took her virginity but her diary say different and she also lived with a guy for a year in a one bedroom apt before we met. at first she told me that she was with 8 people before we met but when i flip out about it she ...

I'm attractive but have very low self esteem, I'm too scared to date again in case they reject me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Okay I'm a good looking girl (I am told) and throughout my twenties have never been short of offers. I've had two serious relationships. both ended by me due to different reasons. Got with a guy who was into his alcohol and as a result, this aff...

Everyone says he likes me, but when we leave school, he ignores me...?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Theres this guy that i like and every one was pretty sure he liked me but now when we're at school he acts normally but the minute we get out of school he ignores me. i dont hang out with him, but we both go to the same place after with our ...

After I worked so hard to keep our relationship together-he tells me he wants to break up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I've been in relationship with my boyfriend for now 2years.. I'm 17 and he is 18, everything was perfect till the last 6 months when we started to row and things like that..he said it is because he didn't know if he loved me anymore, because i ...

I am in love, but they have a girlfriend. Someone likes me and I don't like them. Have I just left everything too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I am love with somebody but they have just got a new girlfriend, their is somebody who likes me but i dont like them, i just wish i had told the first guy that i liked him but somebody told me that they thought he was married,which i have found out ...

32, I live at home and I keep changing careers. Will it put guys off me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Will guys avoid pursuing a long-term relationship with me (even though I'm gorgeous, smart, sweet) b/c I'm 32 yet still live at home (since I keep switching careers)?...

Which boy should I reject? My ex or this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - there is this guy that i like and he also likes me. we make each other laugh all the time and we always hang out. But there is this other guy that i was going out with in the past and he says we still go out but i don't really like him as much as i ...

I lied and kept things that had happened in past relationships to myself. He dumped me! I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I started dating JR 2 months ago we've known each other for 14 years. It might have been quick but I KNOW he's the one. There was much more than just chemistry and passion. It was something that cannot be explained. I don't have the time or space...

He likes me, I like him, want to date, but he's reluctant, what do I do to encourage him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I am really interested in this guy that I use to work with. He's 9 years my senior and the man that I've always wanted. After knowing each other a year and a half, I have finally told him that I am interested in him and he told he's felt the same ...

Really, really like this nurse, have a lot in common, much older than she, still want to date her, any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

6 July 2008 (M) - Hello, I've got something that has been burning me up for 2 years. I'm 46m retired from US military. Now I've been around the world once or twice,learned a thing or two. I've never been so enamored with someone as this nurse where I work. On...

My boyfriend does not want me to attend karate class, if there are only men in the class, I want to go, should I abide by his wishes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

6 July 2008 (?) - Today my bf and I went to a class of karate. We had never practiced any kind of martial art, and we were invited and thought we would give it a try. Another friend of his went, and he had invited his gf, but she was sick so she couldn't go. So it ...

My boyfriend likes to hurt my feelings, because I make less money than he does, it is affecting me, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Im beginning to feel really bad about myself. I've been dating my boyfriend for a whike now and I love him in all but sometimes he hurts my feelings. I just started working I got my 1st job working for starbucks, I make about $150 a week after taxes ...

He took my virginity for granted after sex, how do I get over the loveless experience?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I met a guy in November and we dated for about a month. He broke up with me and we didn’t talk for a while, but later on we started talking again. We went on several more dates, and I decided that I wanted to have sex with him, so I waited a month...

Stuck between a bad boy and a nice guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - Age old cliche - and I never thought it would be me asking advice on it! Basically, I'm stuck between 2 guys. Let's start with Guy # 1. Someone I dated for 6 months, really truly fell head over heels for him. He has a bit of a rough past, no...

He says he's afraid of commitment with me, but will still have sex with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

6 July 2008 (M) - so i met this guy who is 28 years old. hes a great guy and has everything ive wanted in someone, well im only 20 so there is an eight year difference. everything was going great, he shows how much he cares for me but one day said maybe he wants to ...

I'm bi curious, my boyfriend isn't satisfying me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three years and bi-curious for a year, he sweet and I love him a lot but sexually he doesn't satisfy i have to fake it should I let him know how I feel about women?...

I'm falling for a "bad boy"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) - a boy at my school really likes me he is hot and all but he is a bad boy so what can i do to like him and dont fell scerd please help...