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writes:Hello, I've got something that has been burning me up for 2 years. I'm 46m retired from US military. Now I've been around the world once or twice,learned a thing or two. I've never been so enamored with someone as this nurse where I work. One the surface we seem so compatible. I love dogs so does she. I don't smoke, nor doe's she. We just seem to have the same basic likes. Thing is, I'm about 20 years older and 20lbs and heavier than I'd like. We've talked on and off, heard what I thought were slight hints of interest. How the heck do I get her interested enough to at least go out for lunch, coffee,anything???Thanks in advance
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 aww sounds sweet i know how that feels but you have to take a chance for romance otherwise friendship is all your gonna have. so take small steps and see how it goes invite her out for coffee coffee goes well invite her out again and take it from their hope that helps xx A
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reader, IrishRogue43 +, writes (8 July 2008):
IrishRogue43 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks to all that responded. I think I need to clarify some; in regards to what we have in common, she dresses conservatively, (not in a political way)I mean, there is a dress code, but in terms of make up, ear-rings, obvious tattoos. Shoot, she still takes her Mom shopping to the outdoor bazaar 30 miles away. It's a little difficult expressing everything about her I like other than sometimes I feel like a teenager on his first date, all nerves, want to say the right thing, talk as long as I can just to stay around her...
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reader, D.D.B +, writes (6 July 2008):
just find some time and ask her out for a coffee its pretty simple and then one time you could ask her around your house for some cake (maybe homemade) and then start it off from there.
HOpe i helped,
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (6 July 2008):
just ask her out for coffee sometime as you enjoy talking with her/ then get to know her better learn more as their is always uncharted territory.. she will either say yes or no. and age is just a number though all people dont feel the same so u have to just test the water take it slow and easy..hope that helps aphex x
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reader, MissRosie +, writes (6 July 2008):
 Just ask her to go for lunch/coffee. Its friendly and theres not to much pressure and it would be a great way to get to know each other better as well. And I promise the age thing will not matter to her if she really likes you.
Good luck! xx
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