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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I appraoch the girl from my office?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm looking for a bit of advice. There's a girl at work who has caught my eye (on many occasions!) but there's a few problems. - I'm not exactly god's gift in terms of looks and I haven't exactly had much luck when it comes to dating! - She d...

Why did he suddenly tell me he didn't want it to go any further?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - Hello please help. I met this guy (22) at a bar about 3 weeks ago. I kinda knew him b4 but only through friends of friends and we never really spoke before. He asked for my number and we were talking and texting. He asked me when he could take me ...

He thought I was going to leave my boyfriend for him! Now we aren't talking.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - im very stressed and i need so advice, because this has never happened to me before. skipping alot of details, my bf(grant) of 2 month's best friend(mac) and i kinda had this thing going that was just alot of flirting through texts that start...

Am I obsessed or crazy? I can't seem to get this guy out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - i've been crazy....actually obsessed about this guy for about a year now. I used to date him a few times, after which he said we'd better remain friends. still i wasn't over him and went out with him another time, and said to me to remain freinds ...

How do I let one boy I like him and let the other know I don't?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - There's this boy in my tutor group at school who is my best friend. I shall call him Bob. Recently Bob has asked me to go ice skating with him, just Bob and me. I said yes(obviously)and we're going on Friday. But I have no idea whether it's a date ...

My younger boyfriend plays stupid pranks that leave me in tears! Who is in the wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - I feel so sad and down. My boyfriend was away for a few weeks working and now he's back I don't know how I feel. I got together with him when I split up with a guy I'd been with for ages, quite quickly admittedly. I also don't like my job and am ...

I am not one of the popular girls, do I stand a chance with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - Ok so I know this guy 4 like a while now and the last couple of months I realized that I wana be more than just his friend. I've heard some rumors that he feels the same but I think his 2 shy to ask me out 'cause his friends will like thinks he is ...

She loves me...but, I just don't think I love her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 22 and this is my first relationshipand it has gone for about 1.3 years. The first 6months were great, she was nice to me, a lot of love, lots of sex just perfect but from that on we have sex 1time a month and it seems that is just doing ...

What does it mean to be a good lover?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - I really work hard on being a good lover. I´ve really thought and read alot on the subject. Only thing is the woman I´m with, as shes more on the recieving end-doesn´t do much but reap the benefits, and I feel like I´m walking a one way street. I ...

Should I teach him a lesson regarding travel plans? Don't you think he needs to include me from the beginning?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of one year made plans (without running the dates by me)booked a hotel for him and his son and his son's friend to the tune of $600.00. A few hours after this was done he called to tell me about it and said my options were that I could ...

My changing personality, and lying, sabotaged my relationship, with the man I want to marry, will he ever trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 years... we practically grew up together. We met when we were in highschool. We've been through tough times and happy times, through out the 10 years we have our ups and downs. But we always make it through. ...

What should I do if he does fix his life and try to get me back?

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9 July 2008 (F) - Ohkay. So I had knew this boy for a while.. since we were really little and now im 13. He's apart of my stepdads not immediate family so i saw him once in a while when there family would have gatherings and such. He had liked me for a while and i ...

When would be the proper time to try, to have sex with her, she is very shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - I love my girlfriend she is a pritty shy girl to be honest. her ex boy friend treated her badly but was more advancde then me , i dont no when i should make the move to have sex with her and how? i dont want to make a move then get rejected i would ...

I'm not ready for a pipe and slippers lifestyle yet! Where's the right man for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm 60 years old but I have still got a good figure and am told that I am pretty. I moved to France to start a new life and everything is going well for me on the business front. The problem, or challenge I should perhaps say, is that I ...

I feel like I'm not good looking enough to meet girls, help please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - the worst part of this all is my friends tell me if they had my looks and body they would be able to get ten times more girls when we go to the clubs, sadly i disagree. I feel i am the ugliest of all my friends and it pisses me of when they say...

I put in so much effort, and I feel like he doesn't appreciate me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, Im hoping that someone out there can offer some advice.. I've been with my boy for over three years and I am utterly in love with him, however he doesn't seem to appreciate me or acknowledge anything I do, he insists that he does....

My girlfriend and I are rarely in contact anymore, and I like another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - Sorry for the length, but I desperately need help!!!I'm 12, turning 13 in about a week. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 6-7 months now, and I guess for our age, we have a good physical life, but since summer started we haven't ...

Should I change for him or act like myself and see what happens?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months and here in the past year i have felt like i cant be myself around him. a couple of nights ago we went out and on the way home we got into an aggument and i said something about not being ...

Do people who have trouble with intimacy tend to "disconnect" from their lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - Do people who have trouble with intimacy tend to "disconnect" from their lovers? I fall in love easily and deeply. But I tend to self-sacrifice my needs, always putting others, espeically my man, ahead of my own desires. I frequently put up with ...

Does what he wrote in his email mean he has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - Idk what to think, but this guy and me are being keeping touch for a year now. The reason that has been difficult is bcuz he's GI and stationed across the country. I've being in contact with him since he was stationed in Japan (I met him in a ...

I can't tell if this guy likes me or not. Is he just being friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

9 July 2008 (?) - I cannot tell if this guy likes me or not. I am in a relationship (5 years) and he is a mutual friend. When we were all saying bye once he held my hand a little longer that I expected. He kept eye contact a little longer too. He's always playfully ...

I need to tell my girlfriend I'm gay.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - Hello there, I have been seeing my girlfriend for about a year and love her dearly but not in a sexual way. Since i was about 12 i never had a sexual feeling towards girl. I've only ever see men attractive. After 8 years have decided to co...

By having unprotected oral sex, I may have contacted a disease of some sort, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - I'm acared migh have caught something. I gave a ex friend a bj and he has been with alot of girls. We didn't use any form of protection. Im lost in thinking maybe i got something from him. I'm with a new boyfriend its been 8 months and he want to do ...

I am a teenage male, who is seriously interested in losing my virgin status, how do I go about this??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - hi. im a 14 year old boy and i REALLY want to have sex. i can't stand it... im tired of people saying "just wait till your older. i want to now... i have friends at school who have already had sex. and if i get to i WILL wear condom...i just wa...

Child from my boyfriends past, makes two, by two different women, if true, I want kids, can all this work??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a 5 year old with another women, he just got an e-mail from someone he dated 4 years ago claiming he is the father of his little girl What do I do? I am currently 27 years old and have been dating my current boyfriend for ab...

Confused, by sexual issues, don't want to have oral sex, we broke up, but I love him, and want him back, what can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - this guy fingered me and i love him to death but we broke up and now i feel like a slut because im only 13 and i let a 14 year old finger me but i love him to death and want him back he wanted me to have oral sex with him but i said no. what should ...

I've liked him for 8 years but he won't open up and actually say if he wants to be with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - I really need help I've been in love with this guy for 2 years now But I've had a crush on him since 2000 him and I talk off and on he acts like he likes me and wants to be with me but it also seems like he's afraid or something I try my best to ...

My chilhood sweetheart wants to be with me but it's complicated, he has a girlfriend he has stuck by because she is pregnant...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - I dated a guy from the time I was 16 to the time I was 21. As per most "highschool sweethearts" relationships, it ended due us wanting a bit of a change, some experience elsewhere etc. We both agreed that we wouldn't try to be friends right aw...