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Archived questions from: 3 July, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm just like a magnet for negative things, all I seem to do lately is cry.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) - i cant cope with life no more! is there anything i can do for my boyfriend apart from be there for him, i know its selfish me thinkin about my feelings when hes going through such a rough time but im really messed up! my boyfriend has recently found ...

What can I do to take my friendship with him up to a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I love this guy I'll call him S. The problem is I'm only 13 and he is 16. I've known him for years and we have always shared this connection. He comes over to my house alot wih my dads friends son (who I'll call J and I always want to hug S when I ...

Pregnant and seeing somebody new - but my parents think he only wants sex. I'm saddened by this comment.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Hey guys..this problem is kinda conplex...but i really could do with some help... Basicly i'm 5 months pregnant with a perfect little boy who i already love to bits. The babys dad doesnt wanna know basicly...i've seen him twice since we found ou...

I want to have sex, but my nervousness is interfering, with my performance, any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (M) - So I'm an 18 yo guy, and still a virgin. I've had the opprotunity to have sex twice. Both times I was nervous as hell. Like beyond nervous if you can imagine. There was very little to no forplay going on before we tried, and both times I went limp. ...

I think I luv him, but he shows no interest, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - im 16 and my boyfriend is 18 im really attached to him and its like never spend time with me but only one time i really love him but i dont know what to do...

Do they only want me, to be their friend? I would like more, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

3 July 2008 (M) - I am 49-yr old male. I meet many ( way too many ) girls in their 20's due to a common fellowship and a few of us have become freinds. I try not to expect that any will actually be attracted to me but the ones I am wondering about always projected a ...

I kept asking, found out she had sex with another man, now I am hurting, please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (M) - I dated a girl for about a year. We decided to end it because we were both going to be apart from eachother because of college. About four months ago we decided to get back together. At first, it was the greatest thing that has happened to me. ...

I said I love you, and he bolted, should I keep it to myself next time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Please tell me why it is when a woman tells a man she loves him even if its in the early stages-he then dumps her? I can understand him getting scared but who has said anyone can make him move in marry heror be exclusive etc -no one can make them ...

He asked for my number, now he's missing in action, should I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - So this guy approached me in a club at the weekend, he chatted to me for ages was really nice, the convo was easy not over the top and I wasn't drapping myself round his neck, he spent time talking to my friend about me (she got the vibe he really ...

Am I just being used for lust because it is a 'want thing'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I met this guys years ago, we went out and it didn't work, but always stayed friends. Except for we can never just be friends, it always turns into us liking each other. He's broken my heart at least 5 times in 4 nearly 5 years. Now he's single and ...

My boyfriend's family, now treat me like I'm a witch, help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Hey all, Can any tell me why my boyfriends mum and younger sister dislike me so much? me and my wonderful boyfriend have been seeing each other seriously for nealy a year now and at first his mum and sister got laong great with me they would inclu...

He's confusing me, should I try to persuade him, or let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - how do u know if a boy really likes you?im so confused,iv been on and off with this boy for 4years we have never been serious with each other u could say it was just for fun,but im startin to fall for him..i have told him that i really like him,and ...

Honestly I find this woman very difficult to deal with. Does she have some disorders, or possibly, extremely low self-esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (M) - To cut long story short, I met this girl two years ago through a TV ad and I have recently met her again, shortly after her breakup with her ex. We maintained contact in between, but summarily our relations are a weird one. We can get along gr...

My head is telling me one thing but my heart is telling me another. Any advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Feel free to tell me that I was wrong to do this, but I don't know what made me do it. My boyfriend was supposed to be moving into a flat the other day but it fell through (for what reasons I don't know), he said that the landlord had found someone ...

Do you think I'm too obsessed with him? He admitted I call him annoyingly often. How can I change that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Hi there! I've just got this thing that when i love someone i tend to call them toooooo much, my boyfriend just admited to me yesterday that it annoys him, me calling him like that. we've been together for 3 months now and i just feel like hearing ...

Is it correct to be seeing two people at once, while you are not in an official relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Can you see two people at once? Not like official dating, but keeping your options open and seeing 2 girls at once? That wouldn't be called being a player would it? Because Im seeing a guy who is also seeing another girl, although I am only...

Why hasn't he called for three days!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I know this is a sily question, especially for a woman over 30, but I have been seeing a man for two weeks now, we get on really well and have been out four times. On Friday, which is the last time we went out as he has been away for work since ...

We come from different backgrounds and we both seem to be playing hard to get. Is it going to work? How?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I recently met this guy. We come from different backrounds. Well not totally different, but different enough. You see, he is a gang member. But wait for the whole story before you start spitting your opinions. Are you still with me? Anyways, I met...

My boyfriend won't talk to me and he cheats because he is unhappy...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Iv been wiv my bf 3 years hes 19 im 27. Because of our age gap the relationship has been quite secretive and i think this has lead 2 a lot of problems. Now he cheats all the time. Hes never had sex because ive always caught him 1st but i dont wanna ...

Have any of you met your soulmate whilst with someone else...but can't be with them...how did you deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Have any of you out there met someone, who's not the person you're with at the moment, who you thought was your soulmate and you his/hers, but for reasons beyond your control, can't be with that person right now. How did you deal with it? ...

Is it wrong to like someone different rather than the person you are going out with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) - right well im a bits stuck at the moment i liked this boy for ages so i told him how i felt and it all came out wrong and he started blanking me, but i found out he used to like me when he was younger but never told me. Then i started to become ...

How long is this empty feeling inside me going to last, after breaking up with by bf??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Me and my bf broke up a month ago, and I am so heart broken. We were on and off for 3 years (today would have been our 3 yrs anniversary) and this is the second time we've broken up for real. We broke up last year too for 8 months and then got back ...

I cheated whilst on holiday for the first time on my bf of 5 years!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Im away for holiday and I cheated on my bf here.I was absolutely drunk I couldnt even remember what I did!The guy just used me.I know that we didnt have sex but we did other stuff.Ive been with my bf for nearly 5 years.He's my first guy!I feel sooo ...

My steady boyfriend is wonderful, but I feel like I'm missing out. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I am 22 years old and have been with a wonderful young man for the past 2 years. He is three years older than me, has graduated from college and has been working for the past three years. He is cute, funny, devoted, loyal, sensitive...

I'm attracted to my boyfriend's best mate, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - So i'm in a tricky situation, beacuse i have been with my boyfriend three yers on and off. i know his best friend is attrcted to me but he seems like he could turn against me and my boyfriend would probably do crazy stuff if he found out, cuz he ...

Why has she stopped wanting to be around me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now and she's been really happy and always wants to be around me until recently. We did stuff together about every other day during the weekend and I could tell there was nothin more that she ...

How do I give a lap dance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend wants me to give him a lapdace......but i don't know how can anyone please help me...

I fell asleep with another guy (no sex), and now I'm afraid of what my boyfriend will think. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of a 1 1\2 is out of town for a month for training. the first night alone i went to a party and got a little drunk. my guy friend was thier and i know he has feelings for me even though we have disscussed that i am very much in love ...

Why did he just drop all contact? Is he embarassed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I met this boy a few summers ago at a local theater. We both liked each other from the start and emailed each other for the remainder of the summer and the following winter. Then around November, we lost touch because his email address changed and ...

I've developed feelings for my friend, but she's not interested. How do I cope with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

3 July 2008 (M) - I really need some help here, I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago...since then I've noticed that I've been getting feelings for my closest female friend. I talked to her about my feelings and she said she doesn't want to jeopardize our ...

If he admits to liking 2 other girls, why won't he admit to liking me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I like this boy, even though i'm young, and i've liked him for a year or two. Well a few weeks ago I found out he likes me back, but since we're so young he is still sorta shy about girls. Like he will stare at me and everything, but he won't admit ...

I found hair on the carpet that wasn't mine, is he cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - So, today I was waiting for my boyfriend to get back to our apartment and I was sitting on the floor with our puppy. Well, I brushed my hand across the carpet and my finger got (grossly) tangled in some hair. I absolutely hate loose hair...but ...