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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Torn between two boys--which one do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hello ok sorry for the lenght but here goes... Im torn between 2 boys. The first one (A) i have liked for almost a year but im really confused as he is one year older than me, quite flirty around most people and obviosly to me aswell..... T...

Why is he playing me hot and cold?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hi all. My situation is something that has been breweing for a few months now (since about April). My problem in a nutshell is: I have a co-worker I am very attracted to, and I'm fairly certain he is attracted to me to some degree, ho...

I don't our relationship to be just about sex, so what do I do when my gf says she's horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together about 2 weeks but she seems very horny now and again (she has tried to have text sex with me and has rubbed my penis when we have kissed and said she is wet) I don't want our realationship to be just about se...

She's my first proper girlfriend so should I buy her a sex toy? I'm also a virgin.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend were cuddling the other day and I asked jokingly "you don't have any weird sex toys I should know about do you" and she replied "I do have one blue dildo that my ex bought me... maybe you can buy me a better one!" We have o...

He shows all these signs he likes me but stops short of kissing me! What is his deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - My Situation is that lately a man aged 18 (same age as me-call him Jack) moved into a house on my road. Are these signs of flirting or him having feelings for me: When he moved in came to my house got to know my mum etc.. then when I got home ...

Is it me or the porn that keeps him going longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. We just graduated high school and I have lived with him for almost a year now. I spend every other weekend at my aunt's house and when I come home I find that he has spent most of the time ...

He likes "happy endings" but how can I get mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - my boy friend would rather me give him, massages and happy endings! he works hard at hes job he works for a steel company and loads steel 10 hours a day so i rub him down and that doesnt bother me at all i like doing that for him but he w...

Are we both playing hard to get or am I being dilusional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I had been dating a guy for a few months and at first things were absolutely perfect. After a few months of dating we had our first arguement. After that he became distant towards me and I distanced myself even more. After a couple of weeks of ...

I want to have sex, my boyfriend only wants, to have blow jobs, how do I tell him, that I want more sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two months now and a couple of weeks ago we had sex for the first time. It was my first time ever but not his. But now it seems like all he wants to do is get blowjobs! how do i tell him without being ...

My boyfriend's strange off and on behavior is distrubing to me, what can I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I'm in lovew with this guy, i'm pretty sure he doenst like me and i don't know if i can cope any more, last week we went camping and the whole week we were pretty much together constaantly and we had a great time, lots of laughter and flirting...

My boyfriend has a slight attitude problem, when with his friends, is he doing it to impress his buddies, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - ok well im seeing this guy and hes pretty nice and kind but sometimes we have small arguments over nothing and recently hes been having a go at me about who my friends are i have 1 pretty close boy mate who i hang round with alot. I talked to my b...

Is this lad flirting with me? I don't want to lose his friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - hi i am really confused cos i really dont know if this lad is flirtin with me or if he is just being friendly. -he doesnt mind physical contact like if i touch him or somethin -he sometimes puts his arm round me. -he wants to sit with me in ...

My boyfriend doesn't eat and I'm worried.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hey guys. im a bit worried about my boyfriends eating habbits. He doesnt eat. Well not that im aware of. He had some toast in the morning. He may have a mcdonalds in the afternoon and nothing for dinner. Hes very skinny. Im used to having 3 good ...

Is he giving up on us? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Okay, Well Im 15, dating this 16 year old guy. My first time dating, hes been in previous relationships and I haven't. I had an accident and I wasn't able to leave the house for 6 weeks. Over those 6 weeks, things started getting a LITTLE weird w...

We had sex a day ago, he hasn't contacted me since. Is it ok for me to call him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - This guy I've been dating for almost two months and I finally had sex. He was kind of sparing in his contact with me before, which came every two or three days, and I haven't heard from him since (a day). Is it okay for me to get in touch with hi...

His family wants nothing to do wiith me until I'm his wife. I'm very insulted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Ok, so here's the thing, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 1 and 1/2 years now and I've only met his family one time. He goes back to his hometown where he grew up and visits them, but doesn't invite me and when I told him that I ...

When gets back from strip clubs, I don't want him to touch me. I can't get over it!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles I need quite a help. I know this question has been asked probably million times, but I just can't help myself ... I have to ask again! I love my BF - together nearly 2years... and I know he truly loves me. He is with me 24...

My girlfriend talks to her ex on a daily basis! Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - I have never been the jealous type but iI am getting concerned with my girlfreind who, talks with her ex husband on a daily basis, she says that they want eo remain friends, but to remain friends do they really have to talk with each other everyday? ...

I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's ex wife! Is he taking me for granted through all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - hi ive a really off the wall problem, ive been in a relationship for quite a while but have ran into alot of problems. frist my boy friend just got a divorce from hes wife. i didnt know he was married when i frist met him, he said he was li...

What characteristics in a woman get men to fall in love with them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - What qualities/characteristics in women cause men to fall in love with them? Not want to date them, but truly, genuinely respect and adore them. Obviously, I realize that every person is different, men are not attached to some kind of CPU, no ...

She keeps kissing him but said she still loves me. Do we stand a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend split up about 2 months ago. I heard through a friend that she kissed her male 'friend'. When we were together this guy obviously fancied her, he took a photo of himself on her phone and put it as her wallpaper. Wh...

Will I be cheapening myself if I suggest a weekend away with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I had a birthday card from someone I met on holiday. We didnt have any sex on holiday because I was unwell etc etc and also I wanted to hold back. We have e mailed a few times jsut as friends. Do you think it would be ok if I e maield him and...

I told her I loved her but she didn't feel the same. Should I try again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - i fell in love with my friend for 2years although when she found out she didn't feel the same. Its 5months on and i still cant get over her. She thinks i'm over her. I feel if i explain to her from the bottom of my heart how much i like her she may ...

He didn't want "a relationship", but now he says he does. I'm confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - recently ive been seeing a guy and at the moment we have become soo close and really care about each other we became slightly physical and shared many moments, kisses and stories... i then decided to ask him out offically and he said he wasnt ready ...

If a man keeps talking to your mom does that signal that he is interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - If a man keeps talking to your mom dose that signal that he is interested? Hi my mom and I go to this resturant all the time and I can't tell if this guy is interested in me. He seemed to have be a little flirty but now every time we go in he talks...

Only dating for a week and he's moving WAY too fast... should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Ive been dating this guy for 1 week only and I feel like things are moving WAY to fast. He texts and calls me non stop and always wants to see me. He keeps saying he likes me sooo much and is complimenting me saying I'm beautiful, goregous and ...

I've never had a boyfriend of my own age. What do boys of my age look for in a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hey everyone! Thanks to those who answered my other question but I've got another one... so I've never had a boyfriend who was my age. Okay so I've only had a boyfriend that was 18.. and I'm 15. I always attract people who are 18-26 but never ...

How can I stop my hormones getting in the way of finding a great girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - I am a teenage guy, sixteen years old now, and I want to find the right girl for me in the future. I find that hormones really get in the way of finding who I truly like for personality and who I like just because of sex. Can I find true love, or is ...

My boyfriend wants to finger me, but I'm uncomfortable with my body.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - well I've been dating this guy and we've been talking about the sexual things we wanna do, avoiding the actual sex. he wants to finger me but I'm overweight and uncomfortable with my body. and my guy is "normal," like skinny and attrac...

We have trouble communicating, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - In met this guy who I fell in love with or at least I think I did. There was a communication barrier there but I think it's because we were both so shy and nervous of each other because we liked each other so much.He is a devoted dad to his child ...

Was he serious when he asked me to marry him? Is this moving too fast?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hey im 13 and my boyfriend is 14, he says he wants to marry me....a few weeks ago he sent me text 'marry me' i didnt know how to respond i did tell him how i felt thoug. What if asks me and means it so that i can understand if he is being serious, ...

Do I ask her or just go for it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - If I want to kiss my girlfriend for the first time do I ask her if its okay or do I just go for it? (Mod Note: Age shown may be wrong)...

Is it a bad idea to get a tattoo of his name? He wants to get one of mine.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i been 2gether for 3 years and we been living 2gether for 1 of those 3 years. Anyways, we want 2 get married but dont have alot of money and have been saving for the perfect wedding but my boyfriend wants to get my name tattoed on ...

Is he just dating me so he can say he has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Ok ... i have been goin out with my boyfriend for almost 2months now and im still not sure if he actually likes me or if he is just goin out with me so he can tell people he's got a girlfriend, whenever im with him he's so sweet and makes me feel ...