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Archived questions from: 29 July, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I have absolutely no confidence, please can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - i have absolutely no confidence and cannot have a conversation with girls and some boys. I have a bone displacement in my nose which makes me embarassed and when someone tries to talk to me I try to hide it by looking away, even though they woul...

Here I am on top of him next thing I know, I get poked.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - So i finally met my Man for first time....wow he's amazing, he brought me into kay jewlers and bought me a gold diamod ring, he did it when i wasnt looking, i love him but he won't tell me how much he spent or how many Ks it is. Anyway, we went out ...

How can I stop my boyfriend from worrying about him not pleasing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I've never had an orgasm, i've been having sex with this one guy for a few weeks and he is really worried that i don't enjoy it, which just makes it harder for me to relax. I don't know how to stop him worrying??? ...

Why was he so angry when I kissed him, yet he was happy to have sex with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I met a man recently and he wanted sex but i didnt because I held back. We met up recently and when we went I kissed him on the lips and he wasnt too keen I dont mean a long lingering one, just a quick one-and he doesnt want to see me anymore, not ...

I want to marry this man. He is phenominal. But I'm not sure he'll ever ask.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating my guy for over a year and a half. We've both been married before. Currently no kids. We're both established. And own our own homes. For the entire length of our relationship I've lived about 100 miles away from him and I b...

My ex had the opportunity to break up from his GF as promised, but he did not do so! Can I trust that he will?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - hiya well i told my ex i still loved him and he told me he did too. but he hasn't dumped his gf yet. but he says he will.then his mate told his gf that she was dumped she asked him and said that it wasn't true. that was his perfect oppurtun...

When should our anniversary be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - When should our anniversary be? We knew each other online for ages before eventually meeting. We were supposed to just meet as friends as I had a boyfriend at the time, but we ended up getting on so well and ended up kissing and I realised I had to ...

My heart is saying take him back, my head is saying I am a loser for thinking of it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - myself and both this guy i like both broke up with out partners for each other our 6 month relationship was one struggle after the next. I gave him 3 chances in that 6 months we broke up about 3 weeks ago and now he wants me back. while we were ...

Why, if I reat them the same way, does the guy I don't care about want me and the guy I really like not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - heres an intresting thought.... somone ie me, acts the following way with men.... when your with them, you are good, you give them all the space they need, by that i mean that you let them do all the chasing, (you put the effort in still th...

He cheated and says he is sorry. But is he really?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 3.5 years recently went on a weekend away to Europe with his friends. When he came back I found text messages from a girl he had slept with. He was drinking for 12 hours and he took 3 E tabs that night and remembers nothing at all, ...

Help, I need ideas for a gift for my boyfriend, for our three month anniversary, please give me a few ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hey its mine and my boyfriends 3 month anniveersary next week and we've said we would buy presents and make it a special day..as you do. However I'm stuck! I know hes well into music and aftershave...but there just basic things that anyone coul...

He loves pornography, if I start behaving in bed like a porn star, will he stop watching the pornography?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I know my boyfriend loves me, but if I start acting like a porn star in bed and doing all the acts he enjoys watching in porn, will he begin to lose interest in porn and stop watching it altogether? I've lost weight and now I'm thin like the girls ...

We broke up, have had no contact, saw him at a function, he said nothing, just looked at me, and left early, I want to be friends, but cannot bring myself to contact him, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hi there. I am hoping the great agony aunts can help me here. The answers are great and so prompt so thanks in advance. My ex and I had a pretty fiery breakup at the beginning of June. I was upset, he was upset and we have had no contact at all f...

We constantly fight, I am losing interest, he blames me for almost everything, it's getting on my nerves, we are to move in together, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I can't stop fighting with my boyfriend. We've always fought, at least once every other day, for the entire time we've been together. And I mean that, even before we were boyfriend and girlfriend, we were fighting. So now we've been togethe...

My girlfriend never has time for me, it's either her friends, or she is out of town, I am beginning to distance myself, how do I tell her how I feel? he

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Hey, I have an issue with my girlfriend. She's been out of town almost every other week during the summer and when she gets back she wants to of course catch up with her friends and stuff (which I totally understand) but she can never hangout ...

I want to have more of a relationship with him, but not sure he really likes me, he is a bit cool towards me, should I pursue it or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - I'm a gay Caucasian guy and met a gay Korean guy 3 months ago. At first he would call and return my calls once or twice a week only since he is truly busy everyday working till late and studying. I have more time but don't call more than once a ...

We went through an awful break-up, it's been a couple of months, I want to give it another try, any suggestions, as to how to go about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Dear all, My boyfriend and I broke up in May. We were very much in love, but it was a first real relationship for both of us and was long distance. On top of that, both of us are very conflict-avoidant and dated for a year with the assumption w...

Should I hold back, and only say "I love you" as much as he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Been with my boyfriend 3 months and he recently told me he loves me which was amazing as I felt the same way so I told him back! Now since then he doesn't say it very often, and I've found myself telling him that I love him more than he has told...

I feel better about my looks and I think I'm ready for a boyfriend - how do I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - Hey. My problem is pretty simple really, so here it goes :) I used to feel really depressed about the way I looked. I always used to look in the mirror and think "Urgh, Im so ugly". I never used to give eye-contact with people when they were talking ...

Any good ideas for truth or dare questions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - what are some really good truth question? (from the game truth or dare) thx B...

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant months before we got together. How do I deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I am kinda in a bind here. My boyfriend got two girls pregnent before we met heres the gist of it. I met this guy online and he started coming down to see me every week. We got real close and eventually moved in together after several months. Before ...

He kissed me at a party... does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have a male friend that is sometimes very talkative and shares a lot of his life with me. Other times it's like he hardly knows me. I think he is moody, but I sometimes take it personally. We were at a party not too long ago (for a mutual ...

I'm 19, shes 17, we want to date, how can we tell our parents so they will let us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - ok so there is a girl i like, i am 19 and a sophmore in college, she is 17 and a junior in high school. The trouble is the gap between our school grades is alot larger than our ages, but were afraid that wont matter with her parents. We want to date ...

My boyfriends birthday is coming and I have no idea what to get him-any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My boyfreinds birthday is coming out and i have no idea what to get him.He is a country boy ..I want to get him something special that he can keep and something that means something but i have no idea what that could be...If anyone has got some idea ...

Has my long distance boyfriend lost interest, or am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - So this is my 1st relationship at that a long distance relationship, my bf and i have been together for 3 months.... we used to talk all the time, like i said a few questions ago he wants to marry me, but now i feel like he's not atracted to me ...

How do I make the move from friendship to relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - I'm not sure how to ask this. I feel I'm far to old to not already know the answer myself, but ... there you go. Basically, how exactly does one make the transition from friendship to a relationship? The young lady in question and I flirt constant...