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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am messing around with this guy from work for 6 months now. He has been really hard to understand, sometimes he wants me there and sometimes he doesn't (which i can understand he needs some space, time alone). But when we are together he's respectul, funny, shows me a good time, hugs me non stop, kisses me, and of course we end the sleep-overs with sex (most of the time). He doesn't want anyone at work to know about us and claims that it's our business. Lately he has text me how he enjoys my company. Is he falling for me? Does he want more than the relationship we have now? Is he scared of getting hurt because I leave in 5 weeks to go back home...what should I do to find out?
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (6 July 2008):
 If after 6 months he still wants to keep it a secret, it doesn't sound to me like he is taking it too seriously, unless there is some strict policy at work against dating?
If you are going hoime (wherever that mgith be) in 5 weeks, I would imagine he doesn't think you are taking it too seriously either...It sounds like you aren't on the same page, maybe it's time for a little chat with him to see where you both stand and how you feel?
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