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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend seems genuine but I have a very hard time trusting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - I think I have some serious trust issues. My boyfriend and I have only been together for a month and a half, but we were very very close friends before that. I'm concerned if he is genuine or not. All the signs that he means what he says...

He was giving me every single signal that he fancied me and even my friends picked up on it, I told him I liked him and he's gone into hibernation!! Why?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - ok guys what do you think of this: you went out with someone about a 2 years ago, split up(his choice) but remain good mates. But you have always had the feeling he still likes you--even more so recently because he is: making lingering eye contact ...

Not quite ready to give him a hand job, is there an alternative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - So I've been going out with this guy for about 3-4 mnths now, and well I feel like we both might be ready for the next step. However, I don't really feel ready to give a full-on handjob---so is it possible to give him pleasure by ...

I still love my ex, and he loves me, but he also calls me very derogatory names, why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - I had a really long relationship with my ex, but I still am not over him, and he says he isn't over me, but yet, he calls me a hoe and a whore and stuff. I don't know what to do. I have a really good boyfriend now that never has hurt me, but I still ...

We really fancied each other but people at school making fun of us made him aparently lose his feelings towards me, and I can't forget him just like that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

13 July 2008 (?) - Me and a Boy of my age at high school have recently revealed that we both have feelings for one another (Recently being about a month ago). Ever since, we have been flirting like crazy, and the feelings that I have for him have grown stronger and ...

We broke up but I still like him, and I think he feels the same too, but he's a bit hot and cold...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - i think i like a boy i went out with him before and after 8 months we broke up but lately ive been feeling the same way as i did when i was going out with him sometimes i get the feeling that he likes me too but most of the time he just ignores me ...

I ended up dating 2 girls at once, broke up with the first one, am still with the second, but can't stop thinking about the first girl...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - i had a relastionship with a girl that i really liked from the internet and i met her and found myself loving her soo much but i got attracted to another girl which is a colleague in my college and a close friend too.. suddenly i found myself i...

He told me he loved me, then the next minute he's with another girl, what's going on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - i really like this boy we have been good friends for a while now and im sure he likes me too but i have doubts heres my story..... for a few weeks we have been talking on msn and saying how much we like each other nd we were suposet to meet up a few ...

My boyfriend insists on fisting me and having rough sex even though I have had many operations 'down below' and it causes me so much pain

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

13 July 2008 (?) - so i think i need some advice cause i am not sure what to do. my fiance and i have been together for a year and a half. we are deeply in love and he does everything under the sun for me. i couldnt ask for a better man. but we have a few sex issues. ...

Her moving abroad seems to have ruined our relationship, she says she has lost her feelings towards me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - Sorry, trying to be short as I can so as not to bore. There is a lot of info, so if anyone wants clarity let me know. My girlfriend and I had a fight and we broke up. Now, we have been dating for about a year and a half, but part of that was...

We have an on again off again relationship, all we do is party and there's nothing meaningful about our relationship but I want to change that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - Probably same oll question just in a different variation. I've known this guy for about 5 years. We went out off and on, 6 months here, 1 yr break, 3 months here, 8 months break, and so on. Every time I get a hold of him, which is about once a year ...

I like this lad and he likes me - but he has a girlfriend and I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - i really really like a lad at school who i think likes me aswell cos he flirts with me nearly as much as i do with him, and that is a lot! the only problem is that he has got a girlfriend and i dont know what to do! he probably knows that i like him ...

What do you, the agony aunt, think of my situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - I must be crazy... I very recently decided that I should move in with my boyfriend of a year and a bit. He's not that financially stable, but he loves me, and I love him... But I've recently come across my oldest friend. We knew each othe...

Would a Latino take me seriously as a girlfriend or wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - I would like to hear from you latino guys about this? If you are a white, American girl is it possible that a latino guy will ever take you seriously as a girlfriend? I'm worried that I'll never be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but the ...

Intelligence is something I highly prize in a partner but he's not the brightest crayon in the box!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - So, I'm between a rock and a hard place. Not to blow my own horn, but I'm one of those annoying smart people; I consider myself well read, knowledgeable, and (I'll admit it) I'm a pain in the ass when it comes to debating. I thrive on informat...

Can I marry her now? Is she trustworthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - should i marry her or not? ..hi all. i have been reading about the hurt that we guys feel about your fiance's past. i am in a similar situation and at a point of making a decision to marry or wait. a good advice will help here. i will start with ...

Both girls want a relationship with me and I'm to blame. How do I go about this without using them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - Hi lately I have been going on dates... Basically theres two girls which I like, at the weekend me and one of the girls went on a camping weekend, at end of night we ending up having sex together. The other girl I havent met yet but she's ...

I am struggling with my girlfriend's newfound relationship with her ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - I am struggling with my girlfriends newfound close relationship with her ex boyfriend. Several weeks ago we broke up but remained together on several levels. Throughout our relationship my girlfriend has always kept her ex at a distance never ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about his friend trying to feel me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - Last night I had gone out with my bf and our friends and all that and most people were pretty tipsy except for this one guy who doesn't drink or anything. My bf and I had this huge fight and we weren't talking at all. Later we were all sitting at a ...

There's this really cute guy I met on the school bus, how do I take it further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - hey i'm 13 and i broke up with my first bf ever a couple of months ago and theres this really cute boy that i met on my school bus, i really like him but he's 16 we both like vid games especially world of warcraft (geeky i know but still) n we're ...

If a guy who says he wants to stay single shows signs of liking someone, is he confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - Right if a guy around the age of 18-19 says he wants to stay single but he shows some signs of liking one of his friends does this mean hes confused or something? because surely if he'd chosen to stay single he wouldn't show signs of liking people ...

Why does he need to lie to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months, he basically lives with me considering he stays the night at my house every night. We have a issue lately I have been really under the weather. My job seems to be in a rut and he really has not been ...

He punched me! What do I do about this bf who loves me one minute and treats me horribly the next??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (?) - hi, i really need a bit of advice as i dont feel there is anyone close enough to talk to about this. me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two years, will be two years in october, and i love him with all my heart and more! i would do ...

I have no family, because I need love and affection I sometimes get desperate, can you please give me constructive advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - Please can you give me some constructive aadvice and not jsut class me as a "nutter" I wasa brought up in various childrens homes from pillar to post my mother having elft me my father had a breakdown then re married so was elft in the homes. I ...

I'm not sure which girl I should pursue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - Hey I have a friend who I have known for quite a while - and we talk to each other a lot - both in real life and on the internet, and I really like her as a friend. I fancy her as well though, and people say we should get together and stuff. I think ...

What can I say back through text to someone I like and who fancies me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - I am really good friends with a guy in the year above me. He told me that he really fancies me and we need to spend more time together. I really like him too. He sends me really nice texts, but i never know what to say back to them. One example bein...

I don't know how to tell my best friend I really like him. Secondly, I'm having problems getting over my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - The first part of the problem is that I like my best friend. He's been my best friend for a few years now and I don't know exactly how to tell him I like him, but I know I need to. The second part is that I just can't seem to get over my ex. I've ...

Is there a resonable time period, to wait for someone, who likes me, and who has broken off a relationshp, and does not to start a serious relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - How long should I wait for a guy who likes me alot but is not ready for a serious relationship yet due to a recent break up?...

I have a girlfriend, who I want to buy a gift for, but I have no money, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - well this question sort of involes a girl see i went out with her and we went on happily for 2 and a half years and i promised to by her something speacial but i have no money and i forgot last annavirstiy and bascically a am ask fir advice because ...

My girlfriend runs after the boys I like, I try to let her do what she wants because I want her to be happy, but this one boy I really like a lot and she has her eye on him, she also lies about me to boys, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - ok i told my friend that i liked this guy allot and she didnt even no him and we hung out 2 days ago and she started flirting with him...........she gave him her number and was askin him out and stuff...............and scince in knew that she liked ...

How do you act graceful in the midst of a former flame?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - How do you act graceful in the midst of a former flame? There was a man I was in love with a couple of years ago and now we will have to confront each other at an professional event. I know when we see each other there will be sparks again but...

Would he love me more if I was in a porn film?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - If your boyfriend watches Internet porn should you film an internet porn film of yourself? My boyfriend watches porn, even though he thinks I don't know it. He goes on the internet, and he consistently lies about going on the porn sites, even thou...

Played by a Leo man?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - I started going out with this Leo guy in his early 30's and he came on pretty full on at the start. I had recently come out of a relationship and wasn't sure at the time if I was ready for this. It became intense and the times we shared were fan...

What are the odds of my girlfriend being pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - So here is my dilema. My girlfriend and I had sex last night and I came inside her. One hour after, she started her period. What's the odds of her getting pregnant? We have sex on a very consistant basis atleast once a day no more than 5 times a ...

What is my next move with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - Hi i met this girl last saturday through a friend, she stayed in my house that night, we didnt do anything, just kissing, holding hands etc,she seemed to really like me, the follow day we were txting, then she stopped and ive txt her once or twice ...

I lied about my age so it only lasted 2 days! I was in love so how do I recover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - Okay...here it is.. i know im young,but im positive i fell in love last year. i lied about my age, it lasted 2 days and he hates me now. i can't stop thinking about him and it hurts so much. i can't go on without closure. i miss so much it makes me ...